Episode 55 - Shaping the Self: Masculinity in the Age of Awareness - Keith Edwards

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In this conversation, Keith Edwards discusses his research on masculinity and the process of unmasking and becoming. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-management in redefining masculinity and encourages individuals to navigate the blank slate and create their own authentic version of masculinity. Keith also highlights the role of accountability and feedback in personal growth and the influence of media in shaping our perceptions. Overall, the conversation explores the complexities of masculinity and the need for individuals to consciously define and embrace their own authentic masculinity.
In this conversation, Keith Edwards discusses toxic masculinity, self-discovery, engaging men, creating social change, navigating change in relationships, accountability and growth, embracing impermanence, and empty nesting. He emphasizes the importance of giving oneself permission to stop conforming to societal expectations and instead focus on being true to oneself. By embracing authenticity and being open to growth and change, individuals can experience transformative relationships and personal growth.

Takeaways

• Masculinity is a complex and evolving concept that requires individuals to navigate their own path and define their own authentic version.
• Self-awareness and self-management are crucial in the process of unmasking and becoming, allowing individuals to consciously choose their actions and behaviors.
• Accountability and feedback play a significant role in personal growth and the development of authentic masculinity.
• Being mindful of the media we consume and actively choosing what aligns with our values and aspirations is essential in shaping our perceptions and understanding of masculinity. Toxic masculinity is not about men being toxic, but about the harmful expectations placed on men.
• Self-discovery involves understanding the experiences and events that have shaped one's identity, while self-creation involves making choices aligned with one's values and purpose.
• Engaging men in conversations about masculinity is crucial for creating social change and challenging harmful norms.
• Navigating change in relationships requires open communication, acknowledging growth, and embracing impermanence.
• Accountability should focus on actions and behaviors rather than blaming or shaming individuals.
• Embracing impermanence allows for personal growth and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances.
• Empty nesting can be a time of growth and new opportunities for couples.
• Giving oneself permission to be authentic and true to oneself is essential for personal growth and fulfillment.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage
03:11 Keith Edwards' Background and Research on Masculinity
08:06 Identity Crisis and Redefining Masculinity
13:08 The Process of Unmasking and Becoming
20:00 Navigating the Blank Slate and Redefining Masculinity
25:30 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Self-Management
28:00 The Role of Accountability and Feedback in Personal Growth
32:14 The Influence of Media and Being Mindful of What We Consume
38:37 Understanding Toxic Masculinity
42:19 Self-Discovery and Self-Creation
46:44 Engaging Men and Creating Social Change
50:43 Navigating Change in Relationships
55:20 Accountability and Growth
01:01:30 Embracing Impermanence
01:09:12 Empty Nesting and Relationship Growth
01:11:56 Permission to Be Authentic
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