Episode 117: Healing in the Messy Middle—How to Transform Churches, Families, & Communities with Dr. Monique Gadson

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Have you ever felt like you’ve grown and healed, but the people around you haven’t?

In today’s episode, I’m joined by my friend and therapist, Dr. Monique Gadson, for a powerful conversation about how to ignite change not only within ourselves but also within the systems we're deeply connected to—whether that's our families, churches, or work environments. Here’s what we cover:

1. Dr. Monique’s insights from her work as a therapist within a church setting (8:06)

2. The difference between toxic cultures and imperfect human gatherings (17:00)

3. How kindness can sometimes hinder growth (29:07)

4. How to be "in" but not "of" a system (36:04)

5. The effects of culture-wide PTSD (38:35)

6. Practical ways to find and nurture hope (43:45)

Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.

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Episode 60: How to Make New Friends, Identify Red & Green Flags, & Extract Yourself From an Unhealthy Situation w/ Aundi Kolber & Dr. Monique Gadson

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