S1 Ep 10: Brown Chicken, Brown Cow (sound it out): Sex in Marriage

Men of Faith

Solid marriages are built on the foundation of intentionality, service, and commitment for us Men of Faith.

In this episode, Caleb and Brandon shift the conversation from sexual purity to healthy intimacy in marriage, a topic that is often misunderstood or neglected. Together, they offer practical insights on how to strengthen the bond between husband and wife by focusing on serving each other emotionally, spiritually, and physically. They discuss the importance of setting expectations, cultivating attraction, and ensuring that both partners’ needs are met.

Whether you're looking to enhance your marriage, deepen your connection, or navigate challenges in intimacy, this episode provides honest dialogue, encouragement, and actionable advice for creating a flourishing, Christ-centered relationship.

Jump into the conversation:
(00:00) Shifting the focus to cultivating intimacy
(02:49) Brandon’s 31 years of marriage experience
(05:11) Practical tips for building intimacy over the years
(08:39) Importance of setting expectations for intimacy
(11:45) Caleb shares the value of serving your spouse first in intimacy
(15:00) The myth of simultaneous orgasms and prioritizing your spouse’s needs
(17:04) Creating an environment of love and connection through effort
(19:42) Physical health’s impact on intimacy and attraction
(23:17) Serving your wife emotionally, physically, and spiritually
(26:12) Romantic gestures and bringing back the effort from the early days
(29:29) Lead your marriage by serving and loving your spouse

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