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Send us a text Paranoia isn’t just a passing fear—it’s a powerful tool used to control people. In this episode, we’re diving deep into how paranoia is woven into the teachings of Jehovah’s Witnesses and the lasting psychological impact it has on members. Jehovah’s Witnesses are taught to fear the outside world, believe that Satan is lurking behind every corner, and view former members as dangerous. This constant state of fear isolates them from society and keeps them loyal to the organization. But here’s the good news—paranoia is learned, and it can be unlearned. Join me, Lady Cee, as we break down: 🔹 What paranoia really is 🔹 How Jehovah’s Witness teachings foster a culture of fear 🔹 The emotional and psychological toll on members 🔹 Steps to break free from paranoia and reclaim your trust in the world If you’ve ever struggled with fear and mistrust after leaving a high-control group, you’re not alone. Let’s talk about it in the comments and support each other in healing. 💬 ✨ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this video to help others on their journey to freedom. ✨ 📌 Resources & Support (Insert links to helpful resources if applicable) Support the show…

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Low Self-Esteem: How Growing Up as a Jehovah’s Witness Shaped My Confidence 18:02

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Send us a text Many ex-Jehovah’s Witnesses struggle with low self-esteem due to the unique challenges of growing up in a high-control religion. In this heartfelt episode, Lady Cee shares her personal journey of overcoming the emotional toll of being raised as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses. We’ll explore how family dynamics, religious expectations, and feelings of exclusion can leave lasting effects on self-confidence. You’ll also discover four common signs of low self-esteem and practical steps to rebuild your self-worth. Whether you’re an ex-JW or someone navigating the aftermath of a high-control group, this episode offers insights, encouragement, and actionable strategies to help you heal and thrive. Key Takeaways in This Episode: How growing up in a high-control religion impacts self-esteem Four signs of low self-esteem and what they mean Practical steps to reclaim your confidence and self-worth A message of hope and healing for the exJW community 💡 If this resonates with you, don’t forget to LIKE, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE for more episodes on life after leaving high-control groups. Support the show…

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The Motto for 2025 Keep it Simple Yet Be Consistent 13:46

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Examples in Psychology can help you decondition from manipulation 13:23

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Financial Friday: Tracking Expenses to Avoid Debt 4:14

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Jehovah's Witnesses: Loyalty to God or an Organization 5:53

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Why Are Jehovah's Witnesses Always Talking About Going Out of Business? 12:07

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New Governing Body Members of Jehovah's Witnesses 10:45

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Jehovah's Witnesses: Physically In Mentally In - Why Are You Here? 12:57

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Freedom & Personal Commitments After Leaving the Jehovah's Witnesses 11:25

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Jehovah's Witness Prisoners Abandoned by the Watchtower 10:59

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Are Jehovah's Witnesses Allowed to Vote in Elections 10:43

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Send us a text In this episode, I explore how Jehovah's Witnesses are raised to view voting as incompatible with their beliefs. Growing up as a Witness, I was told that even participating in student council elections was discouraged, as it was seen as a steppingstone to “real” politics. Jehovah's Witnesses believe in waiting solely for God's Kingdom to rule and are taught not to place their trust in human governments. But what are the real-life consequences of this approach? I share my thoughts on how this mindset can lead to missed opportunities and critical voices being left unheard. For example, imagine 500 people who rely on essential benefits but choose not to vote, believing their voice doesn’t matter, while a few supporters of an opposing candidate turn out to vote, ultimately deciding the outcome. It's a powerful reminder of what can be lost when people feel discouraged from participating in government. I also discuss the risks Jehovah’s Witnesses face if they do choose to vote and how they could face disassociation from the organization if they’re found out. Join me as I break down the implications of this policy and reflect on its personal and societal impact. Support the show…

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Shunned by Family: How the Governing Body Controls Jehovah's Witnesses 14:33

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Send us a text In this gripping and emotional video, I share my personal journey of being shunned by my Jehovah's Witness family, orchestrated by the strict rules of the Governing Body. When my mother passed away, her devout sister refused to extend even a word of condolence, showcasing the harsh reality of shunning within the organization. Join me as I expose how the Jehovah's Witness Governing Body exerts control over its members, dictating who they can and cannot communicate with, all in the name of receiving blessings from Jehovah. We'll also delve into the chaos and confusion caused by their inconsistent rules, such as the controversial changes on men wearing beards and women wearing pants, and how these shifts impact the lives of the faithful. This video is a must-watch for anyone seeking to understand the true cost of leaving a high-control religion. It's not just about shunning; it's about family, faith, and the pain inflicted by the Governing Body's authoritarian rule. Click to uncover the real story behind the facade and learn about the emotional toll of breaking free. Support the show…

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Hidden Struggles of Parental Alienation 49:44

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Send us a text In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, Lady Cee welcomes Ms. Ivy back to the show for a third heartfelt discussion. This time, Ms. Ivy shares the painful reality of parental alienation fueled by religious disfellowshipping within the Jehovah's Witnesses community. Despite having legal custody of her 16-year-old daughter, Ms. Ivy faces the heartbreak of her daughter choosing to live with her father, driven by the divisive policies of disfellowshipping because Ms. Ivy is no longer a part of the organization. Through Ms. Ivy's story, we delve into the complex layers of faith, family, and the high cost of standing by one's convictions. This episode sheds light on the emotional and psychological toll of disfellowshipping, not just on those who decide to leave the faith, but also on the innocent family members caught in the crossfire. Join us as we explore the challenges and consequences of religious practices on personal relationships, the journey of finding one's path after leaving a high-control group, and the resilience needed to rebuild one's life and identity in the aftermath. 🔹 Connect with Us: We invite you to share your thoughts, experiences, and words of support in the comments. Your voice matters in this conversation. For more discussions on overcoming adversity, finding your voice, and rebuilding your life after leaving high-control groups, subscribe to our channel and hit the notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes. Support the show…

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Hidden Struggles: Why I Left the Jehovah's Witnesses! 23:19

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