If you are heading home after a long day of work, school or errands how about a pick me up? Five Minute Mojo transforms your ride home into a time of reflection. Thom Walters guides you through thinking about positive ways to evaluate and change your life for the better. He will ask you questions you have never heard before. Dragging yourself home at the end of the day is now a thing of the past. It's time to change our life. It's time for Five Minute Mojo.
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1713: Discovering Your Self-Worth by Ignoring the Thoughts of Others
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From the day we are born we are judged…and it doesn’t let up. If you don’t have a method for helping you understand your self worth, then you are bound to base your value on the myriad ratings from the people around you. The trouble is, you lose your sense of calm when your misperceived self-worth is in contrast to what value you have as decided by…
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1712: Resistance Will Never Lead to Calm
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In our society we are often told to hide or disavow certain emotions; like anger, sadness or anxiety. We are encouraged to only show the parts of us that are lighter and upbeat. But what do you think happens when you mask how you are truly feeling? Not only does it become incredibly tiring, it contributes massively to our level of unrest. Let’s tal…
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1711: When We Get "Lost", Sometimes Our Souls Step In (R)
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We definitely have the ability to make choices in our lives; to do what we feel is best. But it may be important to know that there is also something guiding us in the background. Before we even took human form, in my belief, our souls decided what they wanted to experience. So they know the destination, and they leave it up to us as to how to get …
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1710: How to Set the Intentions for the Day
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It’s safe to say that how you start the day sets the tone for the rest of the day. So wouldn’t it be better to spend some time each morning preparing yourself for the day; calmly, I mean. That was rhetorical btw. Let me share with you how I do it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Tho…
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1709: Take a Moment to Still Your Mind and Truly See this World
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Our minds can hold us captive if we don’t take steps to reign them in. Today I talk about the beauty that presents itself when we take a moment to stop and bring ourselves fully into this moment. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a par…
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1708: The Serving and Un-serving Things We Do to Be Seen
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It is part of who we are to want to be part of a group, to belong. All of us want to be recognized and seen. But the ways we go about that can either bring us the peace of belonging, while other ways will upset our calm and the calm of those around us. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Sche…
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Regret can be a tough pill to swallow. But it doesn’t have to be; at least not one type of regret. If there is someone (maybe many more) that you care about deeply, love. have you let them know how you feel? If not, maybe it would be a good idea. That way, in the event something happens, you won’t rue not letting them know. Let’s talk about it. Lin…
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When was the last time you saw a commercial, any commercial, where the people were not smiling, laughing and having a great time? There aren’t many. It’s because we are told we should be happy; urged to always appear to be joyous. But what happens when we don’t feel that way? Let’s talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain o…
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I was out for a walk the other day and felt my mind and body overcome by an alternate experience. I won’t delve into it here, but I will say that I was living in another place. The moment passed somewhat quickly but then it led me to a question…Where should I be? As you may have guessed, the answer came just as quickly. Come listen for the answer, …
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1703: You Determine Your Age, and Your Calm
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How old we are is one of the oldest societal agreements we all buy into. Which each passing your, some people become depressed; wishing they were younger. Much unlike other attachments, youth is a bit more “elusive”. It’s not as attainable as a car or. big house. So why don’t we talk about ways to live outside the paradigm of aging. Come on. :0) Li…
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We think that every decision we make is of our own choosing. Which is correct. But there are many aspects of you making decisions, and some of them are unknown to you…unless you listen. Today I share a story about how I was able to tune into the voice of my soul, and how you can do it too. Enjoy. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain o…
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1701: Does Your Identity Cause You Stress
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We attribute many labels to who we are. The goal is simple; to help us, and the world, understand who we are. But all those labels were assigned, and they don’t actually make up who you are. But to our point today, sometimes those labels get in the way of us experiencing a calmer, more peaceful life. Let’s talk about it. Links from the Episode: Lea…
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The very essence of mindfulness is to be rooted in the present moment. But if you are so firmly attached to this moment, then how do you set goals for the future. It can be done; and today I talk about how. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) Become a super-fan …
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1699: TGIT...Thank Goodness It's Today
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In many cultures weekends are prized. After a long week working, the thought is…”Finally, two days to do what I want to do”. Wouldn’t it be a bit more relaxing if that same level of excitement and calm came at any time during the week? It can. Let’s talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Sched…
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I’m pretty sure they are things that you are grateful for. But are there more things that you can think of? Today I share an exercise with you that will help you expand your perspective and grow your gratitude muscle. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultat…
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1697: Accepting Things as They Are
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Unless you’re a magician, you can’t change the way things are. And yet, even with that understanding, many people create anxiety by trying to force things to be different than what they are. in those same moments, they are not just seeing it differently, they are constantly keeping that angst going by ruminating on something that is make-believe. T…
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There are some heavy-duty words that could create some uneasiness. And they are not the ones you would think about. Like…Legacy, Dharma or Destiny. They seem innocuous enough, almost noble. But if we think too hard about them, or what they mean, we can get a little restless. There is a way to rethink them to become calmer. Let’s think about it. Com…
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1695: The Best Method for Creating Calm After Casting a Judgment
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Quite simply, by understanding we are all one, you limit much angst and loneliness. But since we are all human, we are prone to forgetting our oneness. And in forgetting, we may cast judgments against other people. It’s not serving for us, so what do we do when that happens? Today I talk about one aspect of non-duality, and what to do in the event …
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1694: What Are Your Gifts, and How Does Knowing Them Help Keep You Calm
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How do you feel when you are trying something new; before you have mastered it. If you are like most people, you are a little nervous, maybe a bit stressed. But how do you feel when you have mastered something? It doesn’t scare you, right? Well, today I talk about going through that inventory of your abilities so you can become calmer. Links from t…
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1693: What's Your Plan for When You're Stressed
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Most everyone listening to this podcast has participated in a fire drill. The premise is simple, know what to do in case of emergency. Ingrain the process so deeply that you will be able to get to safety when you are in a state of panic or emergency. Sounds like a good idea. Not just for a fire or disaster, but for when stress hits. Lets talk about…
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1692: Does Silence Mean Calm for You?
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Silence and calm go hand in hand...but not always. Today I talk about determing if that is the case for you. And regardless of what the answer is, how to proceed. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) Become a super-fan of ZEN commuter and Calmer in 5 and receive …
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1691: Gratitude for Your Hands and Feet (R)
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I have a feeling that if you're here at CI5 then you have a pretty good idea about how bountiful your life is. If not, then why don't we start off with Gratitude 101. It's an easy class. All you need to do is turn your attention to the multitde of gifts you have been given. They don't have to be huge gifts, like winning the lottery. How about we st…
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1690: How to Enjoy the Friends You Have And Still Make More if You Want To
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It is probably the easiest way to add to your level of calm; having good friends you can depend on. And not just depend on, but friends who consistently add to your happiness. Today I talk about how to cultivate new friendships and still appreciate the ones you have. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Sc…
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1689: Live Your Life Without Caring What Others Think
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Fear can hold us back from doing what we really want to do. But maybe it’s time to talk about how to live un unapologetic life; doing what means something to you. At then end, the only one who will truly be happy or miserable is you. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consul…
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1688: Expectation Leads to Disappointment - Seeing a More Serving Viewpoint
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I’m going to tell you the simplest way to not be disappointed; release all expectations. Notice how I didn’t say easiest? We can become less disappointed when we release expectation, but it’s not always easy. Let’s talk about how to see it in a more serving way. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedul…
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1687: The World is Becoming Kinder and Gentler
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We all know that our world has its share of challenges, but it’s getting better. The marginalized people from decades ago, still have challenges, but now they have allies and support. Even kids TV has gotten a bit gentler. More and more people are being seen and respected, and that means a calm for all of us. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ea…
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Our culture is hyper focused on the big events: Graduation, wedding, kids, new jobs, etc. But in focusing on all the big things that are being planned for and coming up, we can miss the smaller moments that can bring just as much peace. Notice i said smaller, not insignificant. Because there are no insignificant moments. Let’s talk about it. Links …
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1685: Connect with All Life to Feel Calmer and Connected
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Many people mistakenly only give their attention to things that they think can benefit them. Sadly, that thinking will leave those people missing out on a sense of calm and connection. Today I talk about how connecting to all life will benefit your wellbeing. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule t…
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1684: How Do You Know When You Are "Off"
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We all have a “default” way of showing up for the world and the people around us. But we also know that many things can impact us in ways that throw our usual demeanor into something else. We can become quiet, worried, anxious; any variety of things. But do you when the “other you” is more prevalent? Having some signs can add to our level of calm. …
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All our minds at some point have gotten stuck on a thought and just kept repeating it. Many times those thoughts are worries, and they just amp up our stress. Today, I read a great article that dives deep into rumination and how to stop it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free…
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1682: How to Take a Shower...Mindfully
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The simple things we do each day don’t require much mental energy, and so, when we are doing them, we send our minds on to other things; mostly worry. We send them anywhere but where we are, this moment. Guess what happens then? You know. So how about giving our attention to the easy tasks, and in doing so, become calmer, mindful. Let’s talk about …
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1681: Daily Intention Setting Helps Keep You Calm
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Much of the world is on auto-pilot; just reacting to whatever shows up in the day. They don’t plan or contemplate, they just impulsively act on whatever feeling they have at the moment. There is another way, and it isn’t specifically about mapping out every part of your life. It’s as simple as setting intentions each day. Let’s talk about it. Links…
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You guessed it; I’m going to throw a little shade on society today…one thought in particular. It has to do with busyness. Specifically the misperception that the fuller your schedule is, the more value you have. I hate to say it (I really don’t), but that is a huge misbelief that is sapping your calm. Let’s talk about it. Links from the Episode: Le…
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1679: Knowing Where You Lose Your Peace
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I have talked about the people that may sap our level of calm, but there are many other things that can derail our peace as well. And it will be in our best interest to see what and where those things are; so we can find more serene alternatives. Let's talk about some of them today. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with…
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1678: Absolutely...Stop and Smell The Flowers
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Some idioms or phrases have been around for decades for a good reason; as trite as they may sound, they are accurate. They resonate with us. The very title of this episode was a suggestion by my guide Bart…in those very words. I stopped and laughed when he first mentioned it…” You’re telling me to literally stop and smell the flowers?”…and the answ…
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1677: The Words You Use Create the Energy of Your Life
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What would you do if, by some means, every time you said a word it would be the equivalent of 5 minutes exposed to radiation. Yeah, I know that is a weird scenario, but hear me out. You wouldn’t use that word right? Well, it may not be radiation, but some words do have the ability to cause stress, anxiety and even sickness. Let’s talk about it. Lin…
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1676: What Are You Really Angry About
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I know from personal experience, that sometimes when i am feeling anger it is because I am frustrated or displeased with something I have done. To that point, as I will talk about today, we will become calmer when we find out the real reason we are out of sorts, and stop projecting our ire onto other people or other things. Links from the Episode: …
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The word “Home” conjures up many images and feelings. But today I talk about our original home; connected to light, existing solely in Love. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) Become a super-fan of ZEN commuter and Calmer in 5 and receive bonuses exclusively fo…
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1674: Creating Calm and Love with Connection
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One of the benefits of being a meditator is spontaneously falling into moments of connection with the world around you. Such a moment happened to me when I was in Boston at the symphony. Today I talk about how the connection I experienced can be cultivated by anyone. And in the process, you not only become calmer, but infinitely more aware of love.…
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1673: Calm and Silence - Not always synonymous
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For me, I do equate silence with calm. But I do know that not everyone is the same. The important thing is to be thoughtful in choosing whichever suits you best. In order to experience calm, we have to be intentional in our decisions, and that includes welcoming silence or not. Let's talk about it. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Compl…
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1672: Is Your World Invisible to You
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I'm not a huge sports guy, but when I was younger, trying to figure out if I was, I heard many a coach say.."get your head in the game" (not just to me). Basically, it was a sterner directive to "be here now". Today, why don't we take that advice. Be in this moment and watch the world become visible. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Com…
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1671: How to Avoid Borrowing Someone Else's Stress
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There are times when we find ourselves face to face with a person who may not know handle to manage their stress. Today I talk about how to avoid borrowing someone else's stress Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Connect with Thom Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/thom-walters-5636391b Patreon - https://w…
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1670: Cultivating Compassion for Self
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We treat others with far more compassion than we treat ourselves; but in the ned it will do some nasty things for our calm if we can't find an inner Love. Let's talk about it. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Connect with Thom Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/thom-walters-5636391b Patreon - https://www…
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1669: Work Can Be Stressful, But Why Do You Stay?
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There is one thing we can all agree on; we have all had at least one job we didn't like. Work is a huge casue of stress. So why are you still there? Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Connect with Thom Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/thom-walters-5636391b Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/zencommuter In…
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We all have had our share of cruddy days. But do we have to let them sit with us the entire day?There is nothing magic about 24 hours. You can decide to change. We can tackle that one together. Come listen. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Connect with Thom Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/thom-walters…
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1667: Watching the Effects of the Wind Brings Us Calm
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Studies tell us that being out in nature helps us calm down, even heal faster. But we all knew that. But what about the individual elements of nature? Well, what about the wind? It can add to our level of calm if we observe in a variety of ways. Come listen. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Connect with Thom …
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1666: Slowing Down Helps Us Notice the Gifts Around Us
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I’ve said it before, and I’m sure I’ll say it again at some point in the future. The beauty of the world is invisible to us when our thoughts are so focused on the future, whether that’s worry or not. That goes for the past as well. When We slow down and bring ourselves to this moment we see the gifts that abound. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time …
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1665: Creating Calm by Connecting with All People...Even the Challenging Ones
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As grandiose as it may seem, each day I try and make the world more peaceful. Most days I’m successful. But life is always changing. Today I talk about how we all can create peace for ourselves and the world. And it can even happen with someone we disagree with. Come Listen. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) C…
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1664: What are the Themes in Your Life - Determining Your Calm
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We all grow up with certain beliefs, and as we get older we see if those thoughts still have resonance for us. Today I talk about the themes that have existed throughout your life. To the point of calm, are they themes that create peace or challenges. Let’s talk about it. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Conn…
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The episode title might strike people with an overwhelming sense of incredulousness. How could anyone think that? Well, hopefully you can...sometimes. Let's talk about it. Meditation Coaching Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary consultation) Connect with Thom Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/thom-walters-5636391b Patreon - https://www.pat…
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