Transforming by Addressing the Emotional Trauma of a Challenging Life with Tim Rubin

Kintsugi Heroes: Uncovering our Hidden Value

Tim started as an IT salesman for Fujitsu, receiving a computer as payment from a cash-strapped client. This unforeseen twist sparked his interest in programming. After getting the computer, Tim self-taught programming and database skills. He used these newfound abilities to develop systems for selling scuba gear.

Tim's adventurous spirit led him into the scuba gear business. Despite initial success, a business dispute forced him to exit, demonstrating his resilience.

Tim next worked in illegal casinos in South Africa. This unconventional job matched his thrill-seeking nature. Seeking new horizons, Tim transitioned into the music industry before realizing his true passion lay elsewhere, prompting him to pursue formal computing education.

Tim met his future wife at a programming college. Their shared ambition eventually took them to Australia in 2001, initially for a short-term experience for Asian exposure but chose to settle permanently in Australia after having children, opting for a stable environment away from South Africa.

Compulsory military service during South African conflicts in Angola and Namibia traumatized Tim, affecting his emotional responses for years. Soldiers' dark humour was a coping mechanism.

Struggling with old traumas, Tim had a significant emotional breakthrough at his aunt's funeral. This led to a gradual emotional awareness and self-reflection journey.

Embracing mindfulness and meditation, Tim learned to live in the present. His aspirations now focus on meaningful relationships and continuing his personal growth with loved ones and living near to the water, providing him with a sense of peace, tranquility, and balance in his life.

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Theme Song: "Broken" by Colin Lillie

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