The Top Three Things That Keeps Couples from Playing The Long Game

The Vision-Driven Marriage

Have you ever felt like you're speaking a different language than your partner, even when you're both speaking English? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the top three things that keeps couples from playing the long game. In our heartfelt dialogue, we discuss the art of active listening and echo back techniques that forge a path to clarity and closeness. We confront the thorny issue of criticism head-on, revealing how to transform potential roadblocks into opportunities for growth, and share strategies for couples to keep their relationship front and center, even in the face of life's distractions.
The shadow of contempt and the weight of hopelessness can darken even the sunniest of relationships. In this discussion, we shine a light on these hidden adversaries, exploring how a cycle of criticism and defensiveness can lead to a fortress of bitterness that shuts out love and connection. We expose the traps of guardedness and stonewalling that couples may fall into and guide you through the process of breaking free from these patterns. By addressing the root causes of contempt, we aim to help listeners rediscover the warmth of mutual respect and affection that may have been lost along the way.
Finally, we navigate the intricate web of intimacy and communication within the sacred space of marriage. We tackle the silent saboteurs of unvoiced expectations and differentiate between productive reminders and the pitfalls of nagging, offering a husband's perspective on these delicate dynamics. As we weave through the different threads of intimacy—physical, emotional, and spiritual—we reveal how they intertwine to strengthen the bond between partners. For those who see themselves in these shared struggles, we open the door to further discussion and support, inviting you to journey with us towards a vision-driven, deeply fulfilling marriage.
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1. Top 3 Things Hindering Long-Term Relationships (00:00:07)

2. Destructive Cycle of Contempt and Hopelessness (00:11:22)

3. Building Intimacy and Communication in Marriage (00:15:16)

4. Overcoming Relationship Challenges for Lasting Intimacy (00:23:44)