The Ex-Files - The Divorce And Separation podcast

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In Part 2 of this deep dive into Property Settlements , Alex and Liza explore the cases that drag on... and on… and on. From high-conflict couples and judicial missteps to multi-jurisdictional property battles and sham trusts, this episode is a guided tour of what not to do if you want to settle your property dispute efficiently. Topics include: The real timeline of a property case (hint: it's rarely 9 months) The infamous Stanford v Stanford and why courts ask: “Should we even divide anything?” Bevan v Bevan and Liza’s own jaw-dropping 26-year delay story What happens when one party hides money, moves assets, or just refuses to cooperate Why family trusts, forensic accountants, and third-party players can blow things up The hidden cost of delays: financially, emotionally, and legally When a judge gets it wrong, and what that means for your case If you're wondering why your matter isn’t moving—or want to avoid becoming a cautionary tale—this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now for the courtroom chaos, lawyer banter, and the lessons you can actually use. Contact Alex and Liza: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow us on Facebook…

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Property Settlement: How to Skip the Queue and Get It Done 32:35

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Property settlements can be slow, frustrating, and emotionally exhausting, but they don’t have to be. In this episode, Alex and Liza dive into the most common delays, mistakes, and pain points that get in the way of a fast and fair outcome, and how you can avoid them. Whether you're dealing with hidden assets, emotional roadblocks, or just waiting in the court queue, this episode gives you the insider knowledge you need to speed things up and stay on track . You’ll hear about: The biggest delays in property matters (spoiler: it’s often disclosure) Why “just wanting it to be fair” can actually slow everything down How grief, anger, and denial derail otherwise simple negotiations The reality of court delays and how long it really takes to get a trial date Why arbitration might be a faster (and smarter) alternative Why involving third parties can be more trouble than it's worth The importance of legal advice, even before you think you need it Whether you’ve just separated or you’ve been stuck in a property dispute for months, this episode will help you understand what’s going wrong and how to fix it. 🎧 Tune in now and get your property settlement moving. Contact Alex and Liza: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow us on Facebook #TheExFilesPodcast #PropertySettlement #FamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #LegalAdvice #SeparationTips #DisclosureMatters #AvoidCourtDelays #MediationMatters #FinancialSeparation…

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Surviving Separation: A Dad's Guide to Family Law 49:49

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In this special episode of The Ex Files , Alex takes the reins to walk Dads through the Top 10 Tips for Surviving Divorce and Separation . Joined by producer Matt, Alex shares personal insights and a bit of humour as he lays out the roadmap for dads navigating the emotional and legal complexities of family breakdowns. In this episode, Alex covers: Put Your Oxygen Mask On First: Why looking after your own mental and physical health is crucial for your kids. Be Organised: The power of lists, calendars, and decluttering your life during separation. Plan for the Future: Setting goals, building financial stability, and thinking long-term. Communicate Effectively: How to stay calm, respectful, and focused when communicating with your ex. Stay Involved: Why being present in your kids’ lives—school events, sports, and daily routines—matters more than ever. Expect the Unexpected: Navigating surprises like protection orders or sudden changes with grace. Find the Right Lawyer: Why choosing the right legal representation is a game-changer. Ask for Help: Breaking the stigma around seeking support, both emotionally and practically. Educate Yourself: The value of parenting courses, financial planning, and understanding family law. Don’t Panic: How to stay grounded when things get overwhelming, with a little help from Winston Churchill. Whether you're at the beginning of your journey or right in the middle, these 10 tips are designed to give you clarity, confidence, and practical steps to move forward. Tune in now for enlightening discussions and real-world strategies that make a difference. Contact Alex and Liza: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow us on Facebook #TheExFilesPodcast #DadsDivorce #FamilyLaw #ParentingAfterSeparation #CoParentingTips #FatherhoodMatters #DivorceSupport #LegalAdvice #SeparatedDads #FamilyLawMatters…

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Toxic Positivity and Divorce: Why It’s OK to Be Angry 44:45

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In this powerful episode of The Ex Files , Alex and Liza dive headfirst into the often-ignored emotional minefield of toxic positivity during separation and divorce. When everyone says “stay amicable” or “just be the bigger person,” what happens to the very real, very raw feelings of anger, grief, and betrayal? Together, they unpack how suppressing those emotions, especially under pressure from professionals, social media, or well-meaning friends, can actually make the legal and emotional journey harder. From parenting dynamics to courtroom behaviour, they explore why acknowledging your anger (and finding safe ways to express it) is not only okay, it’s vital. This is an honest, practical, and emotionally intelligent look at what happens when positivity goes too far. Need someone to talk to? Support is available: MensLine Australia 1800Respect Kids Helpline Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on social media: Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au Follow us on Facebook…

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Co-Parenting in the Digital Age: Boundaries, Apps, and Sanity 41:31

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In this solo episode of The Ex Files , Liza explores the world of co-parenting in the digital age. With a healthy dose of humour, personal anecdotes, and practical tips, she explains how technology and social media are reshaping communication between separated parents and not always for the better! Joined by producer Matt, Liza shares insights on: How social media and messaging apps can fuel conflict during separation Why venting online about your ex is a bad idea (for you and your kids) How FaceTime, texts, and parenting apps like Our Family Wizard can either help or hinder co-parenting Setting clear boundaries for communication, privacy, and social media use Why it’s crucial to think about these issues before finalising parenting orders How your digital behaviour models future habits for your children And a few hilarious (and slightly chaotic) side chats about emojis, thumbs-up dramas, and 1980s answering machines This is a must-listen for any separated parent navigating the tricky balance between staying connected and setting healthy digital boundaries. Tune in for a real-world, practical (and very human) take on co-parenting in today’s tech-driven world. Contact Alex and Liza: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow us on Facebook #TheExFilesPodcast #CoParenting #DigitalParenting #FamilyLaw #SeparationSupport #ParentingAfterDivorce #SocialMediaBoundaries #TechAndParenting #FamilyLawMatters #HealthyCoParenting…

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Revenge in Family Law: When Getting Even Gets Ugly 34:33

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In this solo episode, Alex teams up with producer Matt to dive into one of the most emotionally charged topics in family law: "Revenge" . Whether it’s smashing antiques, posting online rants, sabotaging parenting arrangements, or even the dark world of revenge porn, Alex explores the many ways people try to “get even” after separation—and why it almost always backfires. With legal insight, personal stories, and a healthy dose of straight talk, Alex unpacks: Common acts of revenge and how they show up in family law cases The legal consequences of destructive behaviour How the court treats false allegations, harassment, and emotional abuse Why dragging kids into disputes is never the answer How revenge can impact property settlements, credibility, and even parenting time The increasing role of social media, smartphones, and AI in family disputes This episode is a cautionary tale for anyone tempted to act out during separation—and a reminder that maturity, support, and sound legal advice are far more powerful tools than payback. Tune in to hear real cases, real consequences, and why playing nice isn’t just good advice—it’s good strategy. Contact Alex and Liza: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow us on Facebook…

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Surviving Separation: Looking After Your Mind Before the Fight 41:24

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In one of the most personal and powerful episodes of The Ex Files , Liza shares her perspective on the emotional toll of separation and how mental health plays a critical role in custody battles. Joined by producer Matt, this candid conversation explores the silent struggles many parents, especially dads, face when navigating parenting arrangements after separation. With humour, empathy, and lived experience, Liza reflects on: The emotional rollercoaster of co-parenting The stigma around mental health, especially for men Why it's OK not to be OK Strategies for looking after yourself before trying to “win” at parenting How mental wellbeing impacts legal processes and parenting outcomes Resources available to support parents, children, and teens during separation Whether you're a parent, support person, or navigating separation yourself, this episode is a powerful reminder that taking care of your mental health isn’t just OK, it’s essential. If you or someone you know needs support, help is available: MensLine Australia – 1300 78 99 78 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800 You are not alone. Tune in now for a raw, honest look at the emotional side of separation—and how to protect yourself through it all. Contact Alex and Liza: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow us on Facebook #TheExFilesPodcast #MentalHealthMatters #FamilyLawSupport #CustodyAndCare #SeparationSupport #MensMentalHealth #ParentingThroughDivorce # It 'sOkayToNotBeOkay #SharedParenting #DivorceRecovery…

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Engage, Participate… or Don’t? Court Orders and Real-World Pitfalls 34:03

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In this episode of The Ex Files , Alex and Liza discuss a few recent and important family law cases, explaining what they mean for people going through separation or parenting disputes. The episode is packed with insight, practical guidance, and the usual laughs, covering topics such as mental health conditions and parenting orders, real estate valuations, and the latest on Binding Financial Agreements. In this episode, Alex and Liza cover: The problem with using terms like “engage” or “participate” in parenting orders and what the courts say about psychologists’ roles Why real estate appraisals often don’t cut it in court—and when a formal valuation is essential What recent appeal cases say about contraventions, judge interruptions, and procedural fairness The return of Binding Financial Agreements (prenups) and how courts are treating them post- Black v Black Mediation trends and how to manage complex family law matters in parts Whether you're deep in the process or just starting to explore your options, this episode delivers real-world insights with a healthy dose of humour and honesty. 🎧 Tune in now for a fresh take on where family law is heading. Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on social media: 📧 Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au 📧 Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au 🔗 Follow on Facebook #TheExFilesPodcast #FamilyLaw #ParentingOrders #PropertySettlement #BFAs #LegalAdvice #MediationMatters #RecentCases #SeparationSupport #KnowYourRights…

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Emotional Impact, Legal Outcome: DV and Property Settlements 33:43

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In this powerful and timely episode of The Ex Files , Alex and Liza explore the complex intersection between property settlement and domestic violence in family law. Proposed reforms will reshape how courts consider the impact of violence on financial matters, and the hosts explain what this means for separating couples and their legal teams. Tune in as they discuss: The leading case of Kennon v Kennon and how it paved the way for property adjustments in DV cases The importance (and difficulty) of proving that violence affected a party’s contributions Emotional abuse, coercive control, and the challenge of showing causation How new laws coming into effect in June 2025 may change the landscape Whether these reforms will help—or hinder—the resolution process The risk of misuse, systems abuse, and what this means for lawyers and self-represented parties This episode offers deep legal insight with a candid discussion about how the law is evolving—and whether it's moving in the right direction. 🎧 Listen now to understand the delicate balance between protection, fairness, and legal process. Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789…

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Property Mediation: What to Expect and How to Prepare 42:47

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Mediation can be the key to resolving property disputes quickly, cost-effectively, and on your terms. But how do you prepare for it? In this episode, Alex and Liza break down the property mediation process , from getting ready to the day itself, so you can approach it with confidence. In this episode, they cover: ✅ Why mediation is often better than going to court – saving you time and money ✅ How to prepare for property mediation – including financial disclosure and valuations ✅ The role of the mediator and your lawyer – and how they can help ✅ What to expect on mediation day – including shuttle mediation and negotiation strategies ✅ Tips for reaching a fair outcome – and avoiding common pitfalls If you’re going through a separation and facing a property settlement, this episode will give you practical insights and strategies to navigate mediation successfully. 🎧 Tune in now to take control of your financial future! Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789…

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Fact vs Fiction: The Biggest Myths in Family Law - PART 2 40:35

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Back by popular demand, Alex and Liza return with another Mythbusters episode, separating fact from fiction in family law! From property settlements to de facto relationships, they tackle some of the biggest myths that continue to confuse separating couples. In this episode, Alex and Liza break down myths such as: "Property is always divided 50/50 in a long relationship." "You have to live together to be in a de facto relationship." "If we’ve agreed everything in writing, we don’t need a lawyer." "Dads only get to see their kids every second weekend." "Inheritance is completely off-limits in a divorce." They also explore separation while living under the same roof , the impact of equal shared parental responsibility , and whether courts always grant divorces . If you're navigating a separation or just curious about the realities of family law, this episode is packed with valuable insights. 🎧 Tune in now to get the facts and avoid common legal pitfalls! Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789…

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Fact vs Fiction: The Biggest Myths in Family Law 39:34

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There’s a lot of misinformation floating around about family law, and in this special Mythbusters episode, Alex and Liza take on some of the biggest myths surrounding separation and divorce. From dodgy advice at the pub to outdated beliefs, they set the record straight on what really happens in family law. In this episode, Alex and Liza bust myths like: "The court always favours the mother (or father) in custody battles." "Infidelity affects property settlements—cheaters get less!" "Binding Financial Agreements (pre-nups) are useless." "You don’t need a lawyer—DIY divorce is easy and saves money!" "Taking your ex to court is just legal bullying." They also explore the realities of family violence allegations, how courts approach financial abuse, and why some lawyers (but not all!) might be more interested in racking up fees than resolving your case. If you've ever heard conflicting advice about family law, this episode is here to set the record straight! 🎧 Tune in now and get the facts from two experienced family lawyers. Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789…

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Through Her Eyes: A Female Perspective on Separation 44:15

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In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," Liza takes the lead to explore family law and separation through a female lens. With producer Matt joining the conversation, Liza provides insight into how women experience separation, including common frustrations, communication breakdowns, and how emotional buildup can lead to leaving a relationship. Topics include: Why women often feel unheard in relationships and how this impacts separation decisions. Communication challenges and how to improve co-parenting dynamics. The importance of recognition, accountability, and respectful communication in building a successful co-parenting relationship. Insights on conflict resolution and breaking the blame cycle during separation. Practical advice for both men and women navigating separation and co-parenting. This candid discussion offers valuable perspectives on the female experience of family law, providing both empathy and practical strategies for moving forward. Tune in for a compelling and insightful conversation with Liza and Matt. Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789…

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The Male Experience: Coping, Co-Parenting, and Moving On 46:42

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In this episode, Alex takes centre stage to tackle family law from a male perspective, shedding light on the unique challenges that dads and husbands face during separation and divorce. Joined by producer Matt, the conversation dives into the emotional, practical, and legal aspects of navigating family law as a man. Topics include: Why men often feel blindsided by separation and how to cope with the emotional upheaval. Transitioning from provider to co-parent and redefining roles post-separation. Addressing the stigma around male mental health and seeking support. How false accusations, parental alienation, and coercive control impact men in family law disputes. Practical advice for men on moving forward, protecting their mental health, and achieving fair outcomes. Whether you’re a dad, husband, or someone supporting a man through separation, this episode offers valuable insights, relatable stories, and expert advice. Tune in for a candid discussion about the male journey through family law and discover tools to navigate this difficult time with clarity and resilience. Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media. Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789…

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The Naughty List: Complying with Court Orders in Family Law 30:27

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