Sharon's Story

Hey! Am I Adopted podcast

In this episode we talked about Sharon's adoption story and her journey to reconnect with her biological family. Sharon shares her earliest memory of being in a building in downtown Chicago and later finding out that it was the day she signed her adoption papers. She talks about the moment she found out she was adopted at the age of four and how it didn't affect her much. Sharon also discusses her passion for figure skating and how it provided an escape and stability in her life. The conversation touches on the nature versus nurture debate and the importance of boundaries in relationships with biological family members. Sharon shares her adoption journey and the unique challenges and experiences she faced as an adoptee. She discusses the process of searching for her biological parents and the emotional impact of reconnecting with them. Sharon also talks about the importance of finding one's identity and belonging, as well as the adaptability and curiosity often found in adoptees. She shares her experiences with substance abuse and eating disorders, highlighting the environmental factors that contributed to these struggles. Sharon emphasizes the significance of gratitude and the common theme of adoptees feeling the need to express thanks for being kept or not being aborted. She also discusses the complexities of her relationships with her biological parents and the challenges of navigating those dynamics. Sharon concludes by encouraging other adoptees to share their stories and connect with the adopted community.

• Adoption stories can vary greatly, but many adoptees have a strong desire to connect with their biological families.
• Childhood memories and experiences can shape an adoptee's identity and sense of self.
• Engaging in activities or sports can provide a sense of stability and escape for adoptees.
• The nature versus nurture debate is relevant to adoptees as they navigate their identities and relationships with biological and adoptive families.
• Adoptees often struggle with issues of identity and belonging, but they can find connections and a sense of belonging in various communities and relationships.
• Adoptees may exhibit adaptability and curiosity, as they navigate different cultures and backgrounds in their search for identity.
• Expressing gratitude for being kept or not being aborted is a common theme among adoptees, highlighting the unique emotional journey they experience.
• Relationships with biological parents can be complex and may require setting boundaries and prioritizing one's own well-being.
• Sharing adoption stories and connecting with the adopted community can provide support and understanding for adoptees.