Master Domination Vs Daddie Domination

Diane Callaway

Generally, I write the blog then do the podcast after by writing everything out it helps me formulate my thoughts. Tonight I decided to switch everything up and do the ramblings before the writing. I have been working on several story ideas that are dominant men in relationships with submissive men. I like pushing myself outside of a comfort zone. I have several friends who are masters and several submissive friends who are attracted to daddies. When we are discussing BDSM play styles, some terms are commonly used. The more writing I do, the apparency of how little I truly know about fetishes becomes.

I am working on these new stories, which I do not perceive putting out soon, but they got me to thinking about the dominant and submissive relationships from the male side. I have never been a switch. I will always be a dominant female, but I understand there are many out there who prefer a patriarchal relationship. All relationships are about the details of how a person reacts when we come home, how they respond to our desires, and what things they do when we ask for nothing. Submissives want to give power to those around them. I thought long about what does a dominant want (in other words, what do I want). I like to take care of people; it comes naturally to me. Fixing a problem is my first instinct; I am not a listener but a doer. For a Master led relationship, that seems to be the primary underlying tone. A master wants to give a command, and he wants is followed. He wants his submissive to have full faith that what is done, said, or carried out is in the sub's best interest. For a person of this nature, it is about the act more than the emotion.

A Daddie dominant from what I have learned over the years seems to attract submissives who are more emotionally daunting. A Daddie is more of a sensual dominant on the male side. They are in touch with a higher degree with how a person feels and cultivate those emotions. I am exploring the bare bones of the different types of domination scenarios and understand that each relationship is complicated.

Through observation, discussion, and research, I noticed that Masters tend to gravitate towards a more sadistic role. They enjoy bondage, strict impact play, and a bit more emotional space between themselves and their submissives. Daddies, on the other hand, may bind their submissives but it for a mutual reason. They may utilize impact play, but it for punishment or even sexual exploration. Daddie dominants are about pulling someone towards them emotionally.

If you are into superior male domination and you either think I am onto something or even if you think I am way off base, reach out to me. I would enjoy hearing your input about the different roles. Whether you are a dominant or a submissive, those that live the life can define the life.

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