326 | Establishing Men's Ministries, Living Life to the Full, and Connecting Through Adventure (Tim Lukei)

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In John 10:10, Jesus says that He came so we may have life to the full. This verse guides Tim Lukei’s work as a men's pastor and non-profit leader. Listen in as Tim lists practical tips for building a vibrant men's community. Plus, he describes why adventure matters for your heart, marriage, and family.

Key Takeaways

• If you're following Jesus and it feels boring, you're not doing it right.
• A multi-generational team will create a multi-generational ministry.
• Adventuring as men often opens us up to do life together authentically.
• Don't just be a dad who was there; be a dad who was intentional and present.

Tim Lukei

Tim Lukei is the Men's Pastor of Mariners Church in Irvine, California. He also runs Maverick River Collective, which equips churches to establish sustainable, transformational men's ministries. Tim and his wife, Korrie, have been married since 2006 and have three children.

Key Quotes

• 6:29 - "Adventuring together creates connection moments and moments of, this is so awesome we got to experience this together. That is adventure as it pertains to man's ministry and family and parenting. The best way I know to how to connect with my kids is going on an adventure. And that doesn't always mean hopping on a plane, going to Hawaii or wherever else. It could be like, hey, we're going on a bike ride and I'll take you to this rad new playground. It's going to be amazing. That could be an adventure. And it doesn't cost necessarily anything. My kids beg me to to go on bike rides and it costs nothing."
• 16:18 - "Do the self processing and figuring out, for me it was immediately, I recognized, I am burnout. I'm exhausted. No matter what you should already have had people in your place that you're reaching out in to go, hey, I'm not okay. Have you recognized it? And then begin the processing on what does it look like to become whole again? To get soul rest, to take some time, if you can, to figure out, is there areas where I need a coach or a therapist? One of the things that I try to do as a men's pastor is normalize therapy for men all freaking day. It's not something you do when you're in crisis. It's something that you do constant. Guys, we don't do that well. We don't process, talk through our hardship, difficulty or past. We don't, that's not our natural gear, for at least most guys. Maybe you have some meaningful conversations with people who speak truth into your life, but whether it's painful or not, you need to have that. Definitely figure out what things are the reasons, How did you get here, and don't just throw Band-Aids at something."

Links from Today’s Conversation

• Get 15% off the DadAwesome Store During the Mother’s Day Sale (use code: MOMAWESOME)
• Maverick River Collective
• Conversations in the Wild Podcast
• Men of Mariners — Mariners Church
• Play the Man by Mark Batterson
• Draw the Circle by Mark Batterson
• Becoming a King by Morgan Snyder
• Resilient by John Eldredge

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