Not for Everyone is an existential commentary podcast hosted by one hater (Caroline Winkler) and one lover (Jess DeBakey). We're just two sweet kooks getting carried away being ourselves, waxing poetic on every topic we care too much about. Come for the humor, stay for the honesty. We know we’re not for everyone, but we bet we are for you. __ Subscribe on Youtube and follow on Instagram: @not4everyonepod Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/not4everyonepod/support
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Trigger Warning - NSFW - Explicit Complaining - 'Not For Everyone' is a podcast featuring two cynical man-children exploring the depths of their flawed friendship through lens of schlock cinema and popular culture.
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Jackie Henderson is a licensed mental health counselor and offers real talk around important mental health issues including depression, anxiety, suicide, personality disorders and much more! Each week Jackie will also answer questions written in from viewers listeners as well as providing information that will guide and inspire the listener to live their best lives. Remember you are not for everyone and that is OK! Your life is your own!
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Conversation, conversation, conversation... and its definitely NOT for everyone. This podcast speaks to everyone out there. We give our thoughts and opinions about everything; from Politics, Religion, Relationships, Love, Sex, Health, Sex ( I know, I know, I said it twice but I love talking about it and I know y’all do too!!!) and everything in between. Our conversations are deep, positive, loving and can sometimes be a little raunchy.
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Having an authentic marriage is not easy. Talking about family and recovery is not for everyone. Jenny and Pablo dive into what it takes to have lives of meaning and purpose, marriage, and recovery from hurt and pain. We all long for an authentic relationship, but talking about it being honest, open, and empathetic is a challenging process. In this podcast, Pablo and Jenny dive into their experience with recovery and have an authentic conversation about rebuilding a marriage. Join the commun ...
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Two anime fans briefly recount their favourite shows to a third friend, who would rather listen to just about anything else. Carefully crafted for lovers and haters of anime; prepare for a cornucopia of off-topic jibber-jabber and outlandish buffoonery.
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Body Horror Halloween Part II - The Fly (1986)
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The Fly review starts at: 00:56:00 Movie Recap: The Yakuza (2024) 30 Days of Night (2007) Funhouse (1981) The Lamp (1987) Support: patereon.com/notforeveryone Drink more coffee: https://www.foxnsons.com/ PROMOCODE: NFE
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96. Not for Pumpkins + Letting People Who Hurt You Back Into Your Life
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Visit https://cozyearth.com/notforeveryone and use our exclusive 40% off code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ Happy Halloween! Let’s complain about it. Jess opens the episode with a specific fall issue that needs to be aired, Caroline talks the dynamics of crafting, and then the two commiserate over their clumsiness, which has resulted in the breaking of sentim…
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E.157. Adverse Transformational Leadership
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Text Jackie!!! Transformational leaders know how to encourage, inspire and motivate people to perform in ways that create meaningful change. Martin Luther King Jr is a transformational leader. Steve Jobs is a transformational leader. These leaders have charisma and their messages are timely. However, this power can also be used by adverse leaders t…
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EP60 - Ready Player One Piece
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Step aside Captain Hook, Morgan and Sparrow... There's a new king of the pirates in town! Come with us this week as we explore the Netflix adaptation of ONE PIECE! Witness Monkey D Luffy, as his ultimate quest to find the One Piece and become the new head honcho of the high seas becomes quite a STRETCH! (Get it? Yeah, you get it). See the Mad Straw…
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Body Horror Halloween Part I - Society (1989)
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Society Review starts at: 1:01:00 Movie Recap: El Conde (2023) Legend of Zelda Echoes of Wisdom TMNT (1990) Salems Lot (2024) The Joker II (2024) The Buddy Holly Story (1978) Support: patereon.com/notforeveryone Drink more coffee: https://www.foxnsons.com/ PROMOCODE: NFE
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95. Not for Difficult Personalities + Applying Our Own Advice on Boundaries
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Get 10 FREE meals at https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone. __ Who has two thumbs, hosts a podcast, and is ready to put their own advice to use? Jess and Caroline! C takes us through two boundaries she set this past week and how she felt doing it, and J discusses the ups and downs of moving in with her partner. Hypotheses are nothing without ex…
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Text Jackie!!! Love bombing involves a person going above and beyond for you in an effort to manipulate you into a relationship with them. It looks different for every person, but it usually involves some form of excessive flattery, gift giving, and praise. Jackie shares how love bombing is a form of psychological manipulation that tries to win peo…
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E.155. The Mental Health Benefits of Having A Pet
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Text Jackie!!! For many of us, our pets bring us happiness, companionship and a sense of purpose. Dogs specifically have been proven to reduce stress, anxiety and depression, ease loneliness, encourage exercise, and improve your overall health. Jackie shares her experience of having rescued her dog Zola and all the benefits that came with that choi…
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94. Love Letter: Getting Honest With Yourself, Compromising on Kids, and Ranking Potatoes
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Visit skims.com and let them know we sent you! Select Not For Everyone after checkout. __ This week the lover is alone in a hotel room with the sniffles, and she just needs a little bit of self care time. Away from the stressors of home ownership and work dinners, it's just her and your topic submissions tonight. First, a WHATADO on setting bound…
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Text Jackie!!! Hate seems to be overtaking over our country and it only seems to be intensifying. Jackie explains the root of hatred and how it differs from anger. She explains why some people are more prone to hatred and how a bandwagon mentality can validate hate. She also provides tools to help when dealing with hateful people and how to work on…
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93. Not for Fireworks + What to Say to Your Friend in a Toxic Relationship
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This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/ to try it today. __ This is an episode of complaints, and it starts out with a new long-titled segment about places where people are not allowed to take videos, lest they suffer Caroline’s wrath. Jess chimes in with Instagram stories that are not allowed, and then t…
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Caught In My Eye with William Instone and Darren Davidson
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Please offer your support to CAUGHT IN MY EYE here: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/caught-in-my-eye-feature-film#/ Check out the proof of concept here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8BanVH6ikk CAUGHT IN MY EYE Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3415643568694847/posts/3919191685006697/?_rdr…
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92. Not for Goodbyes + How to Start Owning Your Unique Strengths
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Ever heard of micro acts of feminism? No? Well consider that problem solved because Jess and Caroline have all the details. Listen in on to find out what that even means, how they define their relationships to feminism, how they own their strengths, and how we can learn from the women around us. Things get a little spicy later on as Caroline takes …
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E.153. Marie Lisette Rimer Shares the Loss of Her Son to Suicide
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Text Jackie!!! Lisette's son seemed to be a young adult thriving in the world. He had friends and a wonderful family. He was living in Berlin exploring life and enjoying his career. But depression and perfectionism seemed to have gotten the best of him. He chose to end of his life. Lisette shares Patrick's life & decision with us as well as her jou…
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Text Jackie!!! Self-discipline is the ability to keep working toward your goals, even when it's difficult or you don't feel like it. It's about making conscious choices that align with your long-term goals, even if it means putting off immediate gratification. Jackie shares why some ways to create more self discipline in your life! Support the show…
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Text Jackie!!! The comfort zone is a familiar place where people feel at ease and in control, while the growth zone is the space outside of that comfort zone where people can learn and grow. Jackie explains why some people feel more comfortable in their comfort zone and offers ways to step out into a growth zone where new adventures, learning, and …
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EP59 - Shawty Got So Lo Lo (Leveling)
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Are you a loser? Are you feeling down cause everyone is better than you? In a bit of a slump because you just don't seem to be improving in any aspects of your life? Well! Look no further than Solo Leveling, for your ultimate power fantasy! Witness Sung Jinwoo, a pathetic E rank hunter, as he struggles to find meaning in a world full of super power…
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91. WHATADO: Workplace Woes + Corporate Chaos
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Anyone else feeling lost when it comes to their career? Well, lucky for you, Jess and Caroline know just WHATADO. The duo cover how much to sacrifice when trying to change careers, coworkers who don’t work and complain anyway, how to deal with a loss of passion, interview strategies, and how to know when it’s time to move on. Plus, Jess confesses t…
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Blue Sunshine (1977) - The Great Wig Debate!
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Blue Sunshine review starts at 55:00 Movie Recap: Alien Ressurection (1997) Alien: Romulus (2024) Blink Twice (2024) Beetlejuice Beetlejuice (2024) Longlegs (2024) Support: patereon.com/notforeveryone Drink more coffee: https://www.foxnsons.com/ PROMOCODE: NFE
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Text Jackie!!! This is a brief episode offering some affirmations to empower, support and inspire as we evolve into the fall season. Support the show Click here to support Jackie's show: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson Website: www.safesoulcenter.org Fitness & Dance Website: www.mistfitness.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/youren…
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90. Not For Abandoning Yourself + Mastering Emotional Boundaries
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Visit skims.com and let them know we sent you! Select Not For Everyone after checkout. Get up to 40% off at cozyearth.com/NOTFOREVERYONE. Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ People with sleep issues, raise your hands! Jess and Caroline talk all things sleep, from weird and wild Zoloft dreams to their insomniac partners to a new life-changing sleep schedule…
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89. Hater Hour: Is “Passion” Worth the Hype? - How to Build a Career You Love
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This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/ to try it today. __ It’s Hater Hour, babies! Caroline takes us through the many steps in her career path this week, with key takeaways along the way. She covers using disparate skills to create something new, the logistics of quitting your day job, and how to sit in d…
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88. Not for Internet Sleuthing + “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater”
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Get up to 40% off at cozyearth.com/notforeveryone. Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ After the long weekend, Jess and Caroline have important business to cover. They’re circling back on the F/M/K situation from last week (with new, helpful info!), on Jess’s difficult conversation, and on Jess’s hack for saving money. But that’s not all on this assortment…
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Legend of the 7 Golden Vampires (1974) - "Rise of the Slam Pigs"
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Legend of the 7 Golden Vampires review starts at 1:04:50 Movie Recap: Sasquatch Sunset (2024) Vahalla Rising (2009) Oppenheimer (2024) Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade (1989) Support: patereon.com/notforeveryone Drink more coffee: https://www.foxnsons.com/ PROMOCODE: NFE
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Text Jackie!!! All children are sad, anxious, irritable, or aggressive at times, and many find it occasionally challenging to sit still, pay attention, or interact with others. In most cases, these are just typical developmental phases. However, such behaviors may also indicate a more serious problem in some children. Distinguishing between challen…
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87. Not for Living in Fear + How to Have That Difficult Conversation
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Shop now at https://skims.com/. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. __ Anyone else feeling wormy? Jess and Caroline are, but that doesn’t stop them from going hard off the bat on a WHATADO about a listener’s boyfriend and…
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86. Hot Takes Only: Finding Yourself Post Breakup, When to Indulge, and Brat Summer
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Get up to 40% off at cozyearth.com/notforeveryone. Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ It’s getting hot in here, so gather up your clothes…and get rid of them? Before diving into hot takes, Jess and Caroline talk budget hacks and clothing degradation, culminating in a few ideas for beating the consumerist mindset and some thoughts on what indulging really …
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85. Not For Giving Up on People + Why You Should Cry More
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Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/notforeveryone. __ Good morning, kooks! Jess and Caroline start this week’s episode off with a nightmare date story featuring the Spy Museum in DC, a forgotten triple-date memory, a very fortunate run-in with a listener, and the most unexpected (or perfectly on brand?) pump-up music you’ll ever…
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84. Not for Flirty Husbands + The Best Part About Asking for Help
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This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/ to try it today. __ Your fav duo is back and more upset about things than ever. A WHATADO about a husband being too flirty with friends leads Jess and Caroline to discussions about gray areas in asking people out, partners hanging out with people of the opposite sex, …
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E. 148. The Problem with Complacency
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Text Jackie!!! Complacency is feeling so satisfied with your own abilities or situation that you feel you do not need to try any harder. Complacency arises when routine activities have become so habitual that they feel easy & safe. If you lack the desire to move on from where you are, it is probably because you don't think you deserve better or you…
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Text Jackie!!! Post-Traumatic Growth is the positive psychological change that some individuals experience after a life crisis or traumatic event. Post-traumatic growth doesn't deny deep distress, but rather promotes that doing the healing work can yield changes in understanding oneself, others, and the world. This podcast is a combination of Jacki…
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83. Love Letter: Mindset Shifts for Friends and Flings + “If He Wanted to, He Would”
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Dear listener,Enclosed is a letter from the heart. It contains: • Advice on that friend who won't refund you for a trip you could no longer make • A reminder that almost every relationship let-down is more gradual than it feels in real time • A mindset shift that will help you build and maintain more fulfilling friend groups • The worst TikTok advi…
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Text Jackie!!! Though choosing sobriety is healthier choice for everyone, why is it so hard? The challenges of sobriety include managing uncomfortable feelings without numbing them, going against the cultural norms of alcohol being celebratory, overcoming the thought of boredom, and having to find new outings & friendships with people who support y…
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Text Jackie!!! A fractured sense of self can refer to a distorted, unstable, or fragmented sense of identity that can make it difficult to form relationships, pursue goals, and live a fulfilling life. This can be caused by traumatic experiences that disrupt core beliefs about safety, trust, and control, and can lead to feelings of vulnerability, he…
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82. For You: The Body Image Talk You Needed a Long Time Ago
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This episode is sponsored by Shopify. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/notforeveryone/.___This week, Jess and Caroline add to a conversation that seems to affect just about everyone: body image. They go through some listener DMs and cover topics like acknowledging the variability of body image, accepting your body when you’r…
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Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles III (1993) I Not for Everyone Podcast
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Ninja Turtles III review starts at 50:40 Movie Recap: Team America World Police (2004) The Gentlemen (2024) Leprechaun 5: In the Hood (2000) Maxxxine (2024) Support: patereon.com/notforeveryone Drink more coffee: https://www.foxnsons.com/ PROMOCODE: NFE
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Text Jackie!!! Self-love is a feeling of appreciation, regard, and affinity for oneself. It's closely related to self-esteem and self-compassion, and people with a strong sense of self-love tend to treat themselves with love and understand their own worth. Jackie also shares a gratitude exercise as well. Get your journal or a notebook so you can do…
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81. Not for Meet Cutes + How "Sex and the City" Lied to Us
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Welcome back to Not For Everyone, where this week, Jess and Caroline think people need to cool it. They discuss how people don’t know how to be properly annoyed anymore, how people can’t stop demeaning Americans on the internet, and how people go insane in the comment sections. This leads to some deeper conversations about how we get lost in what a…
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Text Jackie!!! Addiction is defined as not having control over doing, taking or using something to the point where it could be harmful to you. It is a compulsive, chronic, physiological or psychological need for a habit-forming substance, behavior, or activity having harmful physical, psychological, or social effects and typically causing well-defi…
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Text Jackie!!! A people pleaser is someone who has a strong desire to please others, often at the expense of their own needs. People pleasers may be empathetic, caring, and good at understanding others' feelings. However, they may also have low self-esteem, a need for control, or a tendency to overachieve. Jackie explains where that people pleasing…
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Text Jackie!!! People with anxious attachment styles may have difficulty feeling secure in their relationships, even though they desire to feel close to their partners. This need can be driven by low self-esteem, mistrust, and fears of abandonment. Anxious attachment styles can develop in childhood and affect intimate relationships later in life. J…
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80. Not for Eye Contact + Stop Chasing the First Date Spark
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In today’s episode, we’ve got just about every Segment™ in the book for you. Jess and Caroline’s scientific minds put together a theory on attractiveness, a reason we say “you know?” so much, and a realistic take on disappointing people. Also, there’s a NEW segment, folks: Lady Snapple Facts, the first of which brings an often forgotten revelation …
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Text Jackie!!! Do you self-sabotage? Repeat unhealthy patterns? Consistently date the wrong people? Have conflicts with family or in the workplace? Have low self esteem and lack confidence? Feel unsafe in this world? All of these may be cause by childhood emotional wounds and perceptions. Jackie shares how to heal your inner child and if you are a …
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Text Jackie!!! Guilt is a feeling you get when you did something wrong, or perceived you did something wrong. Shame is a feeling that your whole self is wrong, and it may or may not be related to a specific behavior or event. Jackie shares the difference between healthy guilt, unhealthy guilt and shame and ways to navigate through each toward heali…
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