Chesko and Regan discuss a holiday themed AITA about financial abuse and narcissism. Buy tickets to our live show in Los Angeles on January 18th! https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/6502961 Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-m…

This week, we discuss the mysterious case of Ryan Borgwardt, who faked his own death to leave his wife and be with a woman in Uzbekistan and ADMITTED HE WAS PLANNING IT in a street interview before he did it. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr…

On today's episode, Regan and Chesko discuss some of the wild lengths men will go to in order to justify doing the things they determine to not be manly enough and digress into a conversation about misogyny, homophobia, and religion. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https:/…

Chesko and Regan try to offer a bit of escapism from the toxicity of the internet this week and respond to some of the worst opinions Reddit has to offer about women. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Socia…

Back to normal episodes next week. Love you all. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The M…

Chesko and Regan begin with a Halloween themed AITA and devolve into an anxiety filled discussion about the upcoming election. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpick…

Chesko and Regan break down the viral clip of a man giving one of the clearest examples ever of a misogynistic man viewing his relationship as a transaction when his wife asks him for coffee. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-man…

In the nicest way possible, Chesko and Regan respond to a gentleman who gave out the relationship advice of treating your partner like cat or a dog. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://w…

Chesko is out of town, so today Michael Vaughn (AKA Worldshaker) is our fill-in Mr. Pick as he and Regan discuss Chealsea discuss the now infamous TikTok video of a woman complaining about how she was unable to secure her Airbnb refund in North Carolina in the immediate aftermath of Hurricane Helene. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):…

On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan break down an absolutely absurd AITA that really crosses the line from weaponized incompetence into actual abuse. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: htt…

With Regan on Vacation, Caylee Cresta filled in as our "Manhater" this week as we discuss the worst people to grace our FYP's and revisit a...dirty topic that I hoped didn't need to be revisited. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the…

On Today's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the drama that can come along when a work wife starts interfering with your marriage. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mr…

Chesko and Regan dive deep on an AITA about the ways that we shame women for simply wanting to feed their children. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandtheman…

This week Regan and Chesko discuss a young woman (monstra0.3) who took to social media to find the man who groped her at a concert without her consent, only for it to somehow get even worse once he was found and decided to respond. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://w…

Chesko and Regan discuss a fairly short AITA this week and proceed to talk for an hour about parenting, unsupportive spouses, and what to talk about with your partner before having a baby together. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--t…

This week's topic: Chappell Roan. A quick backstory on this episode for anyone who may not have discovered the amazing music of Chappell Roan. Chappell is a new(ish) artist whose debut album has catapulted her into superstar status (and with good reason. She really is THAT good). She posted some videos referencing how weird some of the fan behavior…

This week, Chesko and Regan discuss breakdown as much of the Olympics controversy as we could fit into an hour...there was a lot. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrp…

Mrs. Frazzled joins Chesko and Regan this week to discuss gender politics, intersectional feminism, and the (dangerous) backlash Frazz received from conservative media after making an appearance on the "White Women for Kamala Harris" call that broke Zoom. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhate…

This week, Chesko and Regan discuss a fascinating "man on the street" interview that begins with the question that nobody was asking, "Did you know that 70% of women in downtown Riverside are single moms?" and only goes downhill from there. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: …

On today's show, Chesko and Regan delve into kittys, surprise mountain climbing, and assorted other a**holes on the internet. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickm…

In this week's episode, Chesko and Regan touch on a somewhat sensitive subject of religion and misogyny. As we note in the episode, this topic and our discussion is not meant as an attack on religion, but rather to have discourse on the men (and women) who use religion to try and justify infidelity and the mistreatment of women. Support us on Patre…

We begin by discussing the "Raw-Dogging Flights" trend sweeping across social media and move into an honest discussion about the rituals of violence and tests of manhood that are so prevalent in our society. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-…

On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the varied toxic reactions to the "Hawk Tuah Girl" video and subsequent memes took over the internet this week. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Medi…

Regan is sick this week, but we still have an awesome show for you this week as Jamyle Cannon joins Chesko to talk about his work founding the The Bloc in Chicago and all that they are doing to help enrich the lives of the next generation of youth. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch…

On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss: "AITA for no longer walking my friend home to her dorm after she rejected me?" Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpi…

On this week's episode, Chesko and Regan discuss a video that claims "these are 5 things a man should never have to do if he is married, in a relationship, OR dating." Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Soci…

Chesko and Regan discuss something they never imagined when this podcast started. Apparently grown men, with no underlying health conditions, are shitting themselves...frequently. We apologize for this episode. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/…

Chesko, Regan, and special guest Misha Brown (known better as social media superstar "DontCrossAGayMan") discuss the question that has been posed as a response to the "Man or Bear" discourse that has been all over social media in recent weeks: "Men, would you rather tell your feelings to a woman or a tree?" Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus con…

In this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss weaponized incompetence through the lens of Luciana Grandi Lourencao's half-marathon win, an AITA, and a man making the case for why he thinks the best case scenario for a woman is to be able to mommy her partner into the man she wants him to be. (Note: Chesko might also accidentally be a fourth example) Su…

In this episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the “diabolical lies” told by Dr. Elizabeth Butker’s son to the 2024 graduating class of Benedictine College. Alternative episode titles: “Small Kick Energy” and, my personal favorite, “The Smallest Kicker That Ever Lived.” Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandt…

In this week's episode, Regan and Chesko breakdown a truly unhinged interaction that Sydney Mulvaney (@Sydneytattoos) shared on TikTok about a voicemail her mother received after a single phone call with a man. If anyone was wondering why so many women chose the bear...show them this episode. Note: Chesko's microphone doesn't normally sound this ba…

On part two of this discussion, Chesko and Regan continue to discuss the question that has moved off of social media and into mainstream media, “Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?” More specifically, we delve into the story of the demise of Grizzly Man Timothy Treadwell. Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me…

On this week’s episode, Chesko and Regan discuss the question that has set social media ablaze this week, “Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?” More specifically, we discuss the men who were angered by the fact that so many women answered “bear” and who responded with variations of, “Well I guess that makes me the real victi…

Dr. Roxanne Felig fills in as our temporary manhater this week as we discuss student evaluations, body hair, and the quite literal objectification of women. Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Dr. Felig: Website/Research: https://roxannefelig.wixsite.com/my-site Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roxanne_na…

In this episode, we discuss Mr. Pick Me spending Spring Break in the hospital (which leads into a long discussion on medical gaslighting, fatphobia and racism in medicine. Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://fthe…

In this episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan answer the question, "Who should pay for the first date?" Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Ch…

In this episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan breakdown the AITA "My family wants me to break up with my girlfriend about how she responded to my brother's prank?" Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The…

Part 2 of our episode with Caylee Cresta! Caylee has 2.9 million followers on TikTok and focuses on making uplifting content for women. Let us know your thoughts on this episode with all of us online! Follow us: Instagram: https://instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mepickmeandthemanhater Follow Caylee Cresta: Tik…

Caylee Cresta has 2.9 million followers on TikTok and focuses on making uplifting content for women. Let us know your thoughts on this episode with all of us online! Follow us: Instagram: https://instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mepickmeandthemanhater Follow Caylee Cresta: TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@cayleecres…

In this debut episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan breakdown an absolutely absurd "Am I the asshole" (AITA) that recently went viral that asks the question, "AITA for kicking my wife out after she punched my mom in the face?" Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://…

Please note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners. Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/speechprof Follow F the Nice Guy: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Chesko, The Speech Prof: TikTok: http://w…

Regan’s a writer, actor, content creator, and “nice guy” nay-sayer. While she got her following making mom friendly content, a bad experience with a “nice guy” inspired her to create the F the Nice Guy podcast. Now she gets to do what she loves, sharing stories, laughing at a toxic man’s expense, and shredding the “nice guy” because… F the “nice gu…

Regan’s a writer, actor, content creator, and “nice guy” nay-sayer. While she got her following making mom friendly content, a bad experience with a “nice guy” inspired her to create the F the Nice Guy podcast. Now she gets to do what she loves, sharing stories, laughing at a toxic man’s expense, and shredding the “nice guy” because… F the “nice gu…

The conclusion of my interview with Scott Christian Sava!Scott is an animator, illustrator, director, writer, producer and part-time Hobbit! Over the last twenty years, Scott Christian Sava's work has brought some of the world's most beloved characters to life in film, television, comics, and games. From Casper the Friendly Ghost to the Mighty Morp…

Caylee Cresta has 2.8 million followers on TikTok and focuses on making uplifting content for women. I had the pleasure of meeting her in person and hanging out last month and I'm so excited to share this conversation with you all.Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/speechprofFollow Caylee Cresta:…

Please note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners.Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/speechprofFollow Melanie Zanetti:Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/melanie ZanettiFollow Chesko, The Speech Prof:TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofI…

Santa J. Claus is a legendary figure who embodies the spirit of joy, giving, and spreading cheer. Santa is known around the world, not only for his Christmas work but also his social media presence, with close to 5 million followers on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and more. His uplifting and positive video messages have struck a chord with…

Cyzor is a video creator who often does observational commentary on a variety of topics from misogyny and patriarchy to anime and video games. He’s funny, poignant, and an amazing artist that I’m happy to have on the show.Please note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners.Support the show and list…

Scott Christian Sava is an animator, illustrator, director, writer, producer and part-time Hobbit! Over the last twenty years, Scott Christian Sava's work has brought some of the world's most beloved characters to life in film, television, comics, and games. From Casper the Friendly Ghost to the Mighty Morphin, Power Rangers to Star Trek and Spider…

Shae (@shaeitaintsoo) is a DC-based LGBTQIA+ online advocate. She works to make the community and its allies stronger and more educated through research-based content on TikTok and InstagramPlease note, Bad Advice Wednesdays contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners.Support the show and listen to episodes a week early on P…