“Autistic” women are women first, and there’s a lot they can teach us about both sensitivity and empathy. Join me for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships as I dive into a story about one of my patients, and detail her experirence of what it’s like to be an “Autistic” woman. ———————————————————— Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Ove…

You may be surprised to learn that you are a hypocrite. Especially if you are a “fixer.” Even though you may have good intentions - if you’re not moderating those intentions with what is best for the other person - it might make you hypocritical. Whether you choose to stay or leave the people you’re used to fixing, there is really only one solution…

Before you can accomplish the 7th step of the Interface Protocol (which is to apologize), you must first forgive yourself for your worst mistakes. The holiday season is so important to me, and in this episode, I want to share with you the true meaning of Christmas. Join me as I share about my tragic mistake and how I overcame it enough to forgive m…

It requires Empathy to take responsibility for your actions, and many NeuroDiverse people assume all is well just because they meant well. Awareness can be a start BUT there is no substitute to being able to rise above one’s own feelings and really listen to the heart of another person. Join Dr. Kathy in this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships…

The brainwashing of Autistic abuse sneaks up on you, and once you tolerate even one act of terror, you adapt to the abuse and there’s little left of you to defend. Join us in this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships as Dr. Kathy discusses the trauma induced by Autistic abuse and how to overcome it. It may sound off, but being a proud trauma sur…

In honor of the upcoming holiday, this episode is an ode to Thanksgiving and how Dr. Kathy’s family celebration for this holiday has a different historical root than others. At the end of the day, you need to be very determined to be just who you are and to respect the different ways your loved ones communicate and live their lives. We hope you hav…

In this episode entitled, “Part 2 of The Dark Side of ‘Asperger's,’” I’m addressing the difficulty that people have talking about this problem. No matter whether you’re NeuroDiverse or NeuroTypical, let’s talk about how to break free from the “shadow” and step outside of shame. Because you must first call attention to the problem before you can fin…

Not all NeuroDivergent Relationships are destructive, but in my personal experience, there’s a high percentage of destructive interactions that take place. But, if you have Radiant Empathy and a strong moral code, you can stand up for yourself without harming others. Join me for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships entitled, “The Dark Side …

This podcast episode is a walk down memory lane with my two daughters and the beautiful beginning of our lives together. Thank you to my daughters for helping your mother achieve the impossible goal of feeling joy again. ———————————————————— Check out Dr. Kathy’s latest book, “Going Over the Edge: Life With a Partner or Spouse With “Asperger Syndro…

To move past the miscommunication in your NeuroDivergent relationship, you must first eliminate your anger towards your partner and towards yourself. For this to happen, you need to understand that your NeuroDiverse loved one has a different operating system than you. Join Dr. Kathy’s in today’s episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships to hear her s…

Empathy is much more than sensitivity, much more than words. Join us for today’s podcast episode as Dr. Kathy discusses the 15 years of controversy she has faced since the first edition of her book, “Life with a Spouse or Partner with Asperger Syndrome—Going Over the Edge?” was published, and despite the controversy, how much this book has helped t…

We can look at the communication between a ND and NT as a dance, except that each one is doing a completely different dance. However, if we stay openminded and curious, we can start to understand the other person’s language a bit more each day. Join us for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships where Dr. Kathy breaks down how you can begin to…

Alice Walker wrote, “Healing begins where the wound was made.” Even in your grief, remember that Love is your super power. Join us for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships where Dr. Kathy recalls the story of how her and her ex-husband met and delves into the intricacies of their relationship and everything she’s learned from the experience…

Being empathic isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be unless you can learn to be brave. If you don’t use empathy to make things better then it becomes empathy dysfunction. You have to train yourself to always show up! Join us for this episode of NeuroDivergent Relationships where Dr. Kathy discusses the different sides of the Map of Empathy Territory…

“It never occurred to me that he drank to cope with my mother, but I suspect that is true.” Autism is a primary disorder that needs to be diagnosed in order to save relationships, children, and families. Listen as Dr. Kathy recalls memories from her childhood of about different members of her family, her relationship with them, and what happens whe…

What do you do when you’re met with resistance to an Autism diagnoses? Join us today as Dr. Kathy recalls memories of her Uncle Ed and how she first discovered Autism in her own family tree.Af Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

You’re the only one who can truly know what your duty is. Join us for today’s episode as Dr. Kathy shares with us one of her experiences with extended family that taught her an important lesson that she still uses today. If you’d like to learn more about Dr. Kathy and her work, head to https://asd-ntrelationships.com/…

“It’s literally impossible to be a woman…” Join us for today’s episode as Dr. Kathy speaks about her experience with parental alienation and gives tips to those who might also be struggling with it.Af Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

When you learn to use the 7 Step Interface Protocol, you can learn to rebuild trust and communication within your NeuroDivergent relationship. Join us for today’s episode as Dr. Kathy walks us through her 7 Step Interface Protocol.Af Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

You can do better than survive the trauma, and you can do better than conquer your grief, fury, and underlying fear. You can actually fly up out of that title wave that has destroyed your life & create a far shinier, more pure vision of yourself. YOU are a gift. Join us today as Dr. Kathy reads from the prologue of her brand new Anniversary Edition…

Join us for today’s episode as Dr. Kathy delves into her past to give us perspective on how anger effects us, especially in NeuroDivergent relationships. Listen as Dr. Kathy speaks about how anger is a perfectly normal, human reaction especially when you’re being harmed, but that anger should only be a wakeup call; it’s not meant to hang around for…

Autism isn’t the problem; the problem is the colliding systems of the NeuroDivergent and NeuroTypical. Join us today as Dr. Kathy discusses why it’s vital to have an Autism diagnosis first before you can begin working towards resolutions for NeuroDivergent families or couples.Af Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

Join us today as Dr. Kathy speaks about: - The colliding worlds of the NeuroDiverse and NeuroTypical - The differing operating systems of NeuroDiverse and NeuroTypical - The underlying cause of the conflict between these two If you’d like to learn more about Dr. Kathy and her work, head to https://asd-ntrelationships.com/…

Join us today as Dr. Kathy breaks down both the 7 Step Interface Protocol and the Map of Empathy Territory, both detailed in her book, “Empathy is More Than Words.” She discusses how she created the Map of Empathy Territory to help you navigate a world where empathy is more than words. She also details how the 7 Step Interface Protocol was created …

What IS in a name? People have been using the term ‘Aspergers’ for a long time - even though it’s not the correct term professionally or clinically. Join us today as Dr. Kathy discusses where the term ‘Aspergers’ originally came from and the dark backstory surrounding it that was recently discovered. If you’d like to learn more about Dr. Kathy and …

Once you understand empathy, you have a better chance of resolving problems in your NeuroDivergent relationship. Join us for today’s episode where Dr. Kathy delves into the characteristics of both the Empathy Triad-Sensitive person and the Empathy Triad-Blind person.Af Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

This episode is a special Fathers’ Day message where Dr. Kathy speaks about the similarities she and her dad share having had to navigate a marriage with a spouse on the spectrum. Join us for today’s episode as Dr. Kathy discusses what it’s like being the NeuroTypical family member who no one understands.…

Recently, one of Dr. Kathy’s NeuroDivergent clients took to Chat GPT to ask how to navigate interactions in his relationship with a NeuroTypical individual. While some of the advice and tips it gave are great, many of what it recommended is not possible for a NeuroDiverse individual, such as interactional conversations or paraphrasing.…

“Chitchat” or what is commonly known as that in-between the lines, empathic language is what NeuroTypicals use to connect with others or initiate a conversation. However, NeuroDiverse folks face challenges in interpreting nuances in conversation, such as reading between the lines or engaging in casual conversation. For them, words hold literal mean…

Join us today as Dr. Kathy reads a letter to each of her daughters, Bianca and Phoebe, recalling her memories of their upbringing. She speaks about: - The moments that lead her to the realization that one of her children and her husband were NeuroDiverse. - How the stress of living with two NeuroDiverse family members affects her NeuroTypical child…

Join us today as Dr. Kathy takes us behind the scenes of her life and shares with us why she takes her life personally and why you should, too. Listen as she shares an edited excerpt from her book, “Empathy is More Than Words,” recalls her brief visit to a county jail, and how the life of the personal is a source of strength.…

Join us today as Dr. Kathy dives into how much of the social justice movement around NeuroDiversity often leaves out the experience of the NeuroTypical loved ones and the challenges that come along with the relationship. She also discusses tools to bridge the gap between the colliding worlds of NeuroDiverse and NeuroTypical, including her 7 step in…