Welcome to "Friends with Pineapples," a podcast where we (Paul and Nikki) share our journey and insights from over a decade in the Ethical Non-Monogamous swinging lifestyle. As a couple in our mid-thirties, we've experienced the highs and lows, and we're here to talk about it all! From mental health and physical well-being to the tips and tricks that have made our lifestyle more enjoyable and fulfilling. Join us as we dive into candid discussions about maintaining strong mental health and na ...
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Episode 49: Fan Questions, From Poly to Play!!!
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Send us a text In this episode, we dive into an email from a fan who wants advice on exploring the swinger lifestyle with her polyamorous partner. We discuss the unique dynamics of blending poly relationships with swinging, offering practical tips, insights, and strategies to navigate this exciting journey together. Whether you're curious or ready …
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Episode 48: Breaking Out of Your Shell! Overcoming Shyness at Swinger Events!!!
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Send us a text Feeling a little nervous about attending swinger events? You’re not alone! In this episode, Join Friends with Pineapples as we explore helpful strategies for overcoming shyness and building confidence in the lifestyle. From conversation starters to mindset shifts, we’ll share practical tips to help you step out of your comfort zone a…
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Episode 47: The Art of Saying No! Declining with Grace in the Lifestyle!
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Send us a text Navigating the swinger lifestyle comes with moments where you may need to say no—whether it’s to an invitation, a request, or an encounter. In this episode, Friend With Pineapples dive into the art of declining gracefully. Join us and learn how to set boundaries with kindness, communicate honestly, and maintain respect and connection…
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Episode 46: Love, Family, and Fun! Balancing the Lifestyle and Home Life
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Send us a text In this episode, join us as we dive into the art of juggling the swinging lifestyle with the demands of family life. From setting boundaries to managing time effectively, we share practical tips and personal experiences to help you maintain harmony at home while enjoying the lifestyle. It's all about priorities, privacy, and making i…
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Episode 45: Affirmations in the Lifestyle! Building Confidence and Connection
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Send us a text In this uplifting episode of Friends with Pineapples, we explore the power of affirmations and compliments within the swinger lifestyle. From building self-confidence to enhancing communication with partners, both affirmations and compliments can be a game-changer for personal growth and relationship strength. We discuss how positive…
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Episode 44: Jealousy in the Lifestyle!!! Taking the SDC Quiz
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Send us a text In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we dive into a fun and eye-opening quiz on SDC to see if we’re truly a jealous couple within the swinger lifestyle. Are we as laid-back as we think, or do we have some hidden jealous tendencies? We reveal our results, share insights into handling jealousy, and explore how understanding thes…
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Episode 43: Exploring MORE! An Exclusive Interview with Authors Jay and Bella
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Send us a text In this exciting episode of Friends with Pineapples, we sit down with Jay and Bella, the brilliant minds behind the book More. This dynamic duo takes us on a journey through their personal experiences and the inspiration behind their book, which explores the intricate dynamics of relationships in the swinger lifestyle. We dive deep i…
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Episode 42: Lifestyle Etiquette! Dos and Don’ts for a Respectful Experience.
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Send us a text In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we dive into the essential dos and don’ts of lifestyle etiquette. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned swinger, understanding proper etiquette is key to ensuring positive experiences for everyone involved. We’ll cover everything from how to approach couples respectfully, the import…
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Episode 41: Inside That Pineapple Club! Meet the Owners of West Texas Newest Lifestyle Hotspot
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Send us a text In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we sit down with the visionary owners of That Pineapple Club, the newest lifestyle destination in West Texas. Get an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at what inspired them to create this vibrant and welcoming space for lifestyle enthusiasts. We dive into the club's unique features and how t…
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Episode 40: Outed!!! Navigating Privacy and Disclosure in the Swinger Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this revealing episode of Friends with Pineapples, we tackle one of the most challenging experiences in the swinger lifestyle – being outed. Whether it’s accidental or intentional, having your private life exposed can feel overwhelming and even threatening. Join us as we share our own experiences with being outed, how we handled i…
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Episode 39 : Embracing Vulnerability! The Key to Deeper Connections in the Swinger Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this heartfelt episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we explore the power of vulnerability within the swinger lifestyle. Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but in reality, it's a strength that can lead to stronger connections, deeper intimacy, and greater personal growth. We discuss how opening up about fears, insecurities…
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Episode 38: Meet & Greet Magic! Our DFW Lifestyle Event Review & Important Message
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Send us a text In this episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we give you the inside scoop on a recent lifestyle meet and greet event in DFW. We break down the atmosphere, the people, and the overall vibe of the night, sharing our personal experiences and observations. Whether you’re curious about attending a lifestyle event or want to know what to …
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Send us a text In this fun and insightful episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we dive into the art of flirting within the swinger lifestyle. Join us as we share our favorite tips and tricks for making meaningful connections and keeping the vibe light and playful. We discuss how to approach flirting with confidence, read signals, and respect bound…
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Episode 35: Swinging to the Beat!!! An Interview with Lifestyle DJ VIBEDADDY
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Send us a text In this episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we sit down with the electrifying DJ VIBEDADDY. Join us as we dive into his journey as a lifestyle DJ, exploring how he curates the perfect soundtrack for swinging events and creates an unforgettable atmosphere on the dance floor. DJ VIBEDADDY shares his insights on reading the crowd, sel…
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Episode 34: Unlocking the Mind!!! An Interview with Hypnotherapist VIBE MOMMA!
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Send us a text In this enlightening episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we sit down hypnotherapist Vibe Momma to explore the intersection of hypnotherapy and the swinger lifestyle. Our guest shares their insights on how hypnotherapy can enhance intimacy, improve communication, and help overcome personal barriers within the swinging community. We …
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Episode 33: Building Bonds! Trust in the Swinger Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this essential episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we delve into the vital topic of trust within the swinger lifestyle. Trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, and it takes on even greater significance in the world of swinging. Join us as we explore the various dimensions of trust, from building and maintaining …
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Episode 32: Our First KOS Float trip Part 2!
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Send us a text In this exciting episode of "Friends with Pineapples," we dive into the KOS Float Trip and all they have to offer. Join us as we share our experiences and insights from these unique adventures, where swinging meets the great outdoors. We discuss the vibrant atmosphere, thrilling activities, and the sense of community that make lifest…
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Episode 31: Our First KOS Float trip
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Send us a text In this exhilarating episode, we share our unforgettable experience on the KOS Float trip, a unique adventure tailored to the swinging lifestyle. Join us as we recount the excitement, camaraderie, and intimate moments we enjoyed while floating down the river with fellow swingers. We delve into the vibrant atmosphere of the KOS, highl…
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Episode 30: Excitement for Our Upcoming Float Trip!!!!
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Send us a text In this exciting episode, we share our enthusiasm for an upcoming lifestyle float trip! Join us as we dive into the details of planning and preparing for this fun-filled adventure on the water. We'll discuss what we expect, from the camaraderie of fellow swingers to the thrilling activities and intimate moments that make these trips …
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Episode 29: Tackling Anxiety in the Swinging Lifestyle and Big News!!!!
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Send us a text In this episode, we address a common but often unspoken challenge within the swinging lifestyle: performance anxiety! Join us as we explore the causes and effects of performance anxiety, shedding light on how it can impact your experiences and relationships within the lifestyle. We share our own personal stories and give advice on ma…
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Episode 28: Ropes and Revelations: Exploring Shibari with Rigger Jeyrope
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Send us a text In this captivating episode, we delve into the intricate and mesmerizing world of Shibari with renowned rigger Jeyrope. Join us as we explore the art, technique, and emotional depth behind Japanese rope bondage. Jeyrope shares his journey into Shibari, offering insights into the aesthetic beauty and profound connection that this prac…
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Episode 27: Navigating Stormy Seas! Handling Tough Situations and Drama in the Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode, we tackle the inevitable challenges that can arise within the swinging lifestyle. Join us as we delve into the complexities of navigating tough situations and drama that may arise, from misunderstandings and jealousy to conflicts and boundary violations. Through candid conversations and personal anecdotes, we explore…
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Episode 26: Single Male Pitching in and the Devils Lettuce!
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Send us a text In this episode, Paul and Nikki tackle some questions a listener asked. Should a single guy contribute financially to a couple's expenses for a swinging encounter or is it paying for sex and is it acceptable to use cannabis in the lifestyle? Connect with us: Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and vide…
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Episode 25: Embracing Every Curve! Body Positivity in the Swinger Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode, we celebrate the empowering concept of body positivity within the swinging lifestyle. Join us as we explore how individuals and couples embrace their bodies, regardless of size, shape, or appearance, in the context of consensual non-monogamy. We delve into the importance of self-confidence and acceptance in enhancing…
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Epipsode 24: Navigating Friendships In and Out the Lifestyle with some lingerie questions
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Send us a text In this episode, we dive into the complexities of navigating friendships both within and outside the lifestyle. We explore how the dynamics of swinging can impact friendships, from building strong bonds within the community to maintaining relationships with those who may not understand or accept this lifestyle choice. Then we ask Pau…
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Episode 23: Non-Verbal Communication, Lingerie, and a Viewer Question
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Send us a text In this episode from Ash and Blake we discuss secret signals and non-verbal communication, with a bonus section on lingerie. Then we take a break and come back to answer the question we received from a follower on Instagram that Paul and Nikki answered at the end of the last episode. Links from this episode: https://us.playfulpromise…
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Episode 22: Weekend of Bliss and a Tough Question
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Send us a text In this episode, we recount a thrilling and unforgettable weekend in the swinging lifestyle with some great friends. Join us as we share our adventures, from exciting times to sexy encounters, all filled with laughter and naughty times. Then we take a break and come back to answer a tough question we received from a follower on Insta…
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Episode 21: Creating Boundries Within the Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode, we delve into the important topic of boundaries within the swinging lifestyle. Join us as we explore the nuances of setting, communicating, and respecting boundaries in consensual non-monogamous relationships. We discuss why boundaries are crucial for a healthy and fulfilling swinging experience, how they can vary fr…
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Episode 20: Navigating Apps and Websites for Swingers
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Send us a text In this episode, we delve into the world of websites and apps tailored for the swinging lifestyle. Join us as we explore the digital platforms designed to connect swingers, facilitate communication, and enhance the overall experience. We discuss the features, functionalities, and unique aspects of popular websites and apps, providing…
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Episode 19: Swing of Acceptance: Embracing Diversity in the Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of acceptance within the swinging lifestyle. Join us as we explore the importance of embracing diversity, respecting boundaries, and fostering a culture of inclusivity within the swinging community. We discuss how acceptance enriches our experiences, strengthens connections, and create…
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Episode 18: Exploring Our Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs in the Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this podcast episode, we delve into the swinging lifestyle, exploring the dynamics of what turns us on and off in this unique and often misunderstood subculture. We discuss the various aspects of what makes swinging appealing and what can be a turn-off for participants. From the intricacies of communication and consent to the role…
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Episode 17: Our new years' experience at the hotel take over.
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Send us a text in this episode, we have Blake and Asho over to interview us about our experience with the New Year's Eve hotel takeover. it was a spicy one with a lot of fun times with great people.
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Episode 16: Discussing Hotwifing with Front Porch Swingers!!!!
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Send us a text In this episode, we have a very special guest with us. Please welcome Brian and Brenna from the Front Porch Swingers Podcast!!!! Join us while we dive deeper into the Hotwifing space where they give more in-depth personal opinions and stories! If you haven't listened to them yet what are you waiting for??? Front Porch Swingers (@FPSw…
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Episode 15: Daring Questions about the Lifestyle.
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Send us a text In this episode, Nikki and I discuss an article that she had read called "10 Questions About the Swinging Lifestyle You Always Wanted to Ask but Never Dared." in our opinion, these are some really good questions you can ask yourself or your partner when just starting to explore the lifestyle. if you would like to read the full articl…
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Episode 14: Jump Right In, Or Sink In Slow?
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Send us a text Hello from Blake and Ash! In this episode we discuss how we jumped headfirst into the lifestyle and full swapping after a considerable amount of build up throughout our marriage. Every couple is different so we will give some insight on why we feel we were able to move quickly once getting into the lifestyle. We would love for other …
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Episode 13: Slow and Steady Won the Race!!!
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Send us a text Not many people know this about us (until now) but Nikki and I took 5 years to go from soft swap to full swap. In this episode, we discuss why we felt the need to wait 5 years. We are by no means professionals, but this is what has worked for us. Everyone is different. Hope you have enjoyed this episode and if you have any questions,…
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Send us a text While we enter this holiday season, we take the time to talk about how we are thankful for being in the lifestyle. Also being thankful for the people, opportunities, and adventures we have had while being in the lifestyle. Please feel free to share why you are thankful for being in such an awesome community in our comments. If you ha…
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Episode 11: Are We Ready for Hotwifing? Taking the SDC Quiz!!!
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Send us a text On this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we take the hotwifing quiz on SDC and Share our answers and results. we also go into the main terms and definitions of a Hot Wife, Vixen, Sag, and Bull. If you or your partner would like to take the quiz, please click on the link below. If you have any questions, please feel free to send us…
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Episode 10: Health Benefits of Having Sex and Party Review!!!
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Send us a text In this episode we talk about some of the health benefits of having sex. We talk from the chemicals the get released inn your brain to how it decreases your chance of heart issues. We also talk about our amazing time at our home away from home the Tinboxxx. If you have any questions, or comments please feel free to reach out @friends…
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Episode 9: Types and Terms In The Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode we talk about the different types of lifestyle as well as some common terms. If you have any questions please feel free to let us know at friendswithpineapples@gmail.com https://instagram.com/friendswithpineapples?igshid=MjEwN2IyYWYwYw== https://x.com/friendswithpa/status/1691425231406088194?s=46 https://x.com/nikki_w…
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Episode 8: They Hate Us Cause They Aint Us! why society gives swingers a bad name.
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Send us a text In this episode, we discuss why we feel that society is against not only the swinging lifestyle but also ethical non-monogamy. We dive into how we feel society and past generations before taught us that Swinging is wrong. we also break out some statistics on divorce rates between monogamous marriage and an ethical non-monogamous marr…
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Episode 7: Part 2 of sexual trauma with Dr.Cari O'Neal
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Send us a text In this episode we dig deeper into the forbidden topic dealing with sexual trauma with Dr. Cari O'Neal. We would love to thank her for her time to do this interview as well as all she does not just for the lifestyle but every victim she helps. Dr Cari O'Neal followups are: RAINN. THIS is the organization that without it in your lineu…
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Episode 6: Boot Scooting at the Tinboxxx with interview
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Send us a text In this episode we interview some amazing people at the Tinboxxx in Lubbock and get a sense of why they do what they do for this community. Then we do a review of the "Daisy Dukes and Cowboy Boots" party. We talk about the amazing time we had with the people there and the clubs awesome vibe.…
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Episode 5: Handling Mental Health and Sexual Trauma
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Send us a text In this episode we address the big green elephant in the room. We discuss handling your mental health and dealing with sexual trauma with some key notes from Dr. Cari O'Neal. Yes we know this episode is a lot to handle however we feel it needs to be talked about to help bring awareness. If you or anyone you know is struggling with me…
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Episode 4: How to talk to your partner about entering the lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode we discuss how we feel is a great way to talk to your partner about joining the swinging lifestyle. If you feel that we have missed any subjects or just have questions. Please feel free to email us at friendswithpineapples@gmail.com V/R Friends with PineapplesAf Friends With Pineapples
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Episode 3: 1st hotel take over experience and what you can expect
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Send us a text In this episode we will discuss our first hotel take over experience! We will share what we anticipated, what you can expect and pack, and much more. Join us to hear about an amazing experience, and maybe plan your own!!Af Friends With Pineapples
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Episode 2: Consent and Communication in the Lifestyle
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Send us a text In this episode we navigate how we ask for consent and how we communicate not only with our parter but with other couples. If you would like to add anything or have any questions please feel free to e-mail us at friendswithpineapples@gmail.com
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Send us a text Just a little bit about us and how long we've been in the swinging LifestyleAf Jason
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