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Three Associating: Adventures in Relational Psychoanalytic Supervision
Gill Straker, Rachael Burton, Andrew Geeves
Three Associating is a podcast that offers the listener a peek behind the closed doors of therapists working within a relational psychoanalytic model. Join Rachael and Andrew as they explore with their supervisor Gill how their own hidden feelings and motivations influence the therapeutic process and affect their patients. In each episode, a relational dilemma arising in the context of work with a fictitious patient is explored. While reasons of confidentiality and privacy mean that none of ...
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91 Reasons is a peek inside the mind of Jeff Tucker, a writer and performer. His unique style is a combination of This American Life, The Moth and The Hollywood Saloon (All fantastic Podcasts you should be listening to!) What you'll find: Movies! Conventions! Collecting! Exclamation Points! and MORE! From behind a video store counter to the insane world of movie extra work, take a journey with 91 Reasons into the very heart of Pop Culture. Episodes vary from in-depth movie reviews to persona ...
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Episode 5: Trauma and Magic Powers Part II
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In this episode, Rachael revisits the complex feelings that child sexual abuse evoke in both patient and therapist. Rachael discovers that her wish for magic powers has not disappeared and has reappeared in a different form. Beyond this, Rachael contacts both the magic and the terror of the therapeutic journey itself and the loneliness this someti…
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Episode 4: When Two Become One: The Seduction of Merger
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In this episode, Andrew surprises himself by the degree to which his patient has led him into dissociating from his own inner subjectivity and into merging with the patient's agenda. This agenda, in turn, reflects the patient's merged state with his partner so that “two become one”. Andrew is able to use supervision to take up a third position and …
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Episode 3: Erotic Countertransference: The Taboo of Being Turned On
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In this episode, Rachael approaches the taboo of sexual attraction in therapy and its tendency to lead to dysregulation, involuntary self-disclosure, and shame. Rachael's feelings unduly amplify her self-consciousness, complicating the ongoing therapeutic task of understanding her and her patient's contribution to the co-construction of their relat…
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In this episode it becomes clear that Andrew and his patient Manuela are unconsciously co-constructing a dynamic in which Manuela is under pressure to be cultured and cool in order to maintain Andrew's admiration, while Andrew is under pressure to take up a lesser position. As the supervision unfolds, Andrew becomes aware of how his envy is at the …
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Episode 1: The Therapist's Revenge: Trading Porn for Prayer Cards
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Rachael comes to realise that feeling provoked by the patient’s apparent self-centredness in enactments that occur in the waiting room and in the session has led to a wish to be provocative in return. She first enjoys then tussles with revenge fantasies. By talking through these fantasies and owning their pleasure, she recognises their meaning, and…
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Episode 8: XOXO Gossip Girl; Who's Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf?
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In this episode, Rachael encounters a worthy adversary in the elegant and charismatic Iris. Beguiled by Iris charm and colourful stories Rachael can’t help feeling seduced. However she also feels manipulated and is irritated with herself and Iris. Nevertheless she still feels the pull to captivation in the session. In the end, Rachael realises th…
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In this episode, Andrew struggles to disrupt his patient's rigid self-control, ever mindful of a psychotic potential that could be unleashed given the patient's history of experiencing a psychotic episode. Andrew experiences both the seductions of a meeting of minds and the potential tyranny of his patient's mind that fears the body, its appetites,…
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Episode 6: An Education on Trauma: The Obliteration of Thinking and Feeling
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In this episode, Rachael is provoked by a disrupted patient. Power struggles and challenges emerge in the room as Rachael struggles to think and not enact in the face of the patient's enactments. Technical questions of courageous speech versus disruptive challenges are engaged as Rachael shows great integrity and courage in taking in the challenges…
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Episode 5: SHUSH! When Talking Is The Problem and Not The Cure
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In this episode, Andy is frustratingly blocked by his patient's difficulty in listening and by her incessant talking, both of which reveal parts of her self and mask others. Ironically, Andy himself has to surrender into listening rather than talking and into only having recognised small snippets of his thoughts, if any at all. He becomes aware of …
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Episode 4: Dine In or Take Away Therapy
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In this episode, we encounter Rachael's struggle with an avoidant patient who is fearful of closeness. Rachael is conflicted between her desire for the patient to make progress and to stay present to the work and to 'dine in', and her awareness that, for his desire to move forward to emerge, she needs to take a step back and let him continue with '…
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Episode 3: Dank Memes, TikTok, and Unprocessed Grief
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In this episode, Andrew finds himself challenging his patient's perception of him as an internet dinosaur, too old to be familiar with youth culture. In engaging this challenge, Andrew finds both a way to connect with his patient, but also a way to collude to avoid an underlying grief which needs to be addressed.…
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Episode 2: The Dangers of Addiction: Help Me, Help You
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In this episode, Rachael struggles with exasperation and grief as she writes a court report for a patient who has relapsed. To be both truthful and helpful is no mean feat, and nor is accepting the limits of her responsibility while still grappling with how to move the therapy forward.
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Episode 1: Neurodiversity: Lost in Translation
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In this episode, Andrew, Gill, and Rachael explore the hot topic of neurodiversity. We conclude that whatever the political and ideological controversies, our main focus needs to be on the person in the room.
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Episode 8: When The 'Not Me' Is Actually Not Me
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Misrecognition and the projection of others are a perennial problem, but perhaps more so for those who are queer identified. But whoever is at the receiving end of mistaken identity, the effects are very unpleasant as Gill, Andrew, and Rachael come to know first hand in this episode. www.threeassociating.com…
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Episode 7: Decent Or Indecent Exposure
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In this episode, Gill, Rachael, and Andrew grapple with feelings of exposure as Rachael becomes aware that her private and professional lives have collided, but the exact nature of this is unknown. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 6: The Therapist's Destructive Fantasy
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Rachael, Gill, and Andrew work together to understand how the presence of subtle power dynamics, unconsciously enacted in the therapeutic relationship, are signalled by the therapist’s destructive fantasy. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 5: "Help! I'm A Borderline Nightmare And I Need Reining In"
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In this episode, Gill, Andrew, and Rachael are confronted with how intense feelings can muddy the waters and produce confusion about which feelings belong to the therapist and which to the patient. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 4: Protection And Its Perils
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In this episode, Rachael, Andrew, and Gill discuss the proverbial notion that the road to hell is paved with good intentions as Rachael's wish to protect the patient reveals hidden difficulties. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 3: The Sexiness Of The Self-Help Guru
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In this episode, Andrew, Rachael and Gill tussle together over ethical and therapeutic issues as they wonder where self help ends and where helping oneself to what belongs to the other begins. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 2: Trauma And Magic Powers
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Rachael, Gill, and Andrew struggle hard to resist the all-too-human desire for magical solutions to truly awful problems. www.threeassociating.com
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In the first episode of season two, Gill, Andrew and Rachael plunge into the pleasures and perils of toxic masculinity and the allure of trading intimacy and authenticity for the exercise of power. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 8: Feeling Drowsy When The Connection Is Lousy
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In this last episode of season one, Gill, Rachael, and Andrew grapple with the challenges of staying awake when it seems that the other person is exaggerating wildly or, even worse, is somewhat out of touch with reality. Faced with the seemingly impossible task of finding a constructive way to express one’s thoughts to the person, it is easy to unc…
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Episode 7: When The Patient Demands Special Treatment
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Gill, Andrew, and Rachael wrestle with the thorny issues of rivalry and competition. They show how, ironically, being caught in rivalry can lead one to give away one’s authority, as the focus comes to be placed on competing rather than on occupying one’s own personal power. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 6: Fairweather Friend: The Honeymoon Is Over
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Gill, Andrew, and Rachael encounter the common problem of when we are drawn in by charisma, fail to set firm boundaries and then experience guilt and anxiety about hurting the other person when we feel our boundaries have been transgressed. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 5: Therapist As Sex Object
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Gill, Rachael, and Andrew dive into the heady brew of sex and aggression, showing how these issues can be unconsciously provoked and can then easily lead to shame and overwhelm. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 4: Twinning Isn't Always Winning
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Gill, Andrew and Rachael uncover some unexpected disadvantages of friendliness, delving into how affability can cover up an unconscious fear of difference and otherness, and also mask a desire to be mirrored back positively to oneself. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 3: When An Explosion Is Detonated In Session (Part 2 of 2)
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Gill, Andrew and Rachael discover how unconscious disapproval can be communicated with ill effect and provoke bullying and verbal intimidation in return, resulting in overwhelm, dissociation, and an inability to think. www.threeassociating.com
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Episode 2: When Our Best Is Not Good Enough (Part 1 of 2)
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Gill, Andrew and Rachael come to understand how an unconscious bias towards over-identifying with a person's trauma story inadvertently deprives the person of agency and disallows a more nuanced perception of the person. www.threeassociating.com
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Gill, Rachael, and Andrew explore the common problem of feeling conflicted between a wish to be accepting and the desire to be confronting of offensive stances and statements. They come to recognise how understanding one's own unconscious biases contributes to the solution. www.threeassociating.com
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I try to keep it short and simple but life isn't really simple is it? Life is messy and hard. Here is a window into my life for the past few months.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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Today is about encouragement. We can do this!--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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Abortion is wrong. They feel too, they are real things and real people that you decide to not give a chance to.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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We looked up some deep questions on the wide web and answered them honestly.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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T answers some quick conversation starters so you can get to know her.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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RP, MJ and their friend T play some "friendly" games of Uno. RP never gets to win this time before it starts to rain too much. *Tear drop*--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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Conversation starters with RP and MJ.
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We answer conversation starters and go over what that might mean about the their personality.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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What better way for you to get to know me than for me to just ramble on for the first episode, am I right?--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theRPRealityCheck/support
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Episode #355 We continue our look at the films of Pixar - this time it's Finding Nemo, Cars, The Incredibles and the one with the rat.
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Episode #354 Today we start our journey into the world of Pixar! From Toy Story to Cars, Finding Nemo to The Incredibles, Pixar has changed the way we look at movies and storytelling. Music: http://www.purple-planet.com
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Episode #345 Grab your cap and gown, it's time to graduate! We've made it to senior year (and we're going to rule the school!) My high school journey concludes with my final memories of Norwalk High School. Be sure to sign my yearbook! Have a great summer and K.I.T.!
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Episode #341 My high school journey continues with Junior year! This time I'm building a haunted house, meeting Rick Dees and maybe even going to prom. Grab your tuxedo and corsage! The limo's waiting!
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91 Reasons: REAL MONSTERS OF GENIUS
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Episode #340 Join me for a look at The Hanging 2003 at Knott's Scary Farm. This was the year we morphed the show into a pirate show complete with talking skull and honest to goodness swashbuckling! For the pre-show we came up with a fun new set of commercials...
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Episode #334 Sophomore year! Time to load up your Trapper Keeper, doodle on your PeeChee and head back to school! The transition between 9th and 10th Grade at Norwalk High School was a tough one for me - you'll hear all about it in this episode.
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91 Reasons: 80's REMAKES - WHAT'S LEFT? PART II
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Episode #316 Hey! We're back! Thanks for your patience! We're back with our continuing look at the movies of the 1980's that have yet to be remade or rebooted. This episode covers 1985 and 1986.
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Mini-Episode! The true story of what happened to me this week. What do you when your wife calls and asks why there's a pair of women's panties in the pocket of your work pants? You do this...
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