137 | From Chaos to Collaboration: Building Stronger Families with Effective Councils

FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection

Show Notes:

Today we'll explore the transformative potential of effective family councils in nurturing healthy relationships, increasing open communication, and aligning shared values and goals. These strategies have been game-changing for me and I hope they will be for you too.

Enjoy!

-Kendra

ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy

Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

Contact → [e-mail]

Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy

Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy

Facebook Group → Private FB Group

Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching

Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

Quotes:

• "Family councils serve as a valuable tool for nurturing healthy relationships, fostering mutual respect, and strengthening family bonds through meaningful dialogue and shared decision-making." - Dr. Sue Johnson

• "By creating a space for open communication and collaborative decision-making, family councils empower parents and children alike to contribute their perspectives, preferences, and priorities, ultimately leading to greater harmony and happiness within the family." - Dr. Dan Siegel

• "By embracing collaboration as a core value and integrating it into every aspect of organizational culture, businesses can harness the full potential of their workforce and achieve transformative outcomes." - Peter Senge

• “Collaboration is multiplication.” -John C. Maxwell

Tips for Family Counsels:

1. Establish Clear Goals: Define the purpose and objectives of the council, whether it's improving communication, making joint decisions, or fostering a sense of belonging within the family unit.
2. Create a Safe and Open Environment: Encourage open dialogue, active listening, and mutual respect during council meetings to make sure every family member feels comfortable expressing their thoughts and opinions.
3. Set Regular Meeting Times: Schedule consistent meetings to review goals or the agenda, discuss concerns, and brainstorm solutions collaboratively. Consistency helps establish routines and reinforces the importance of communication within the family.
4. Rotate Leadership Roles: Assign rotating leadership roles for family members to facilitate meetings, set agendas, and ensure that everyone has an opportunity to contribute and take responsibility.
5. Use Visual Aids and Tools: Utilize visual aids such as charts, calendars, or decision-making frameworks to help visualize goals, track progress, and facilitate discussions on important family matters. I do this with my clients. We track growth because it’s motivating when we see progress.
6. Implement Decision-Making Processes: Establish clear decision-making processes to make sure all voices are heard and listened to.
7. Reflect and Adapt: Regularly evaluate the effectiveness of the council and processes, ask for feedback from family members, and make adjustments as needed to improve communication and collaboration.