Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Otterpup joins us as we get uncharacteristically serious and imbue or sex podcast with political meaning. We do a post-inauguration debrief and talk about how the Victator got the wind knocked out of her, Gayle got frenzied, and Otterpup decided he's not a centrist after all, while his parents stepped up guns-a-…

Recorded on a porch in the Lowcountry, in which NuBritt and the Victator come together again to discuss their vaginas, how femme is not equal to sub, why the size of your pussy and labia have nothing to do with how much sex you’ve had, NuBritt’s hermit ways and how she once broke a bed, moving in together on the first date, edging, that time the Vi…

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in a more innocent time, before the election — in which Dusty and Max join as we talk about male bisexuality, if it’s more ok for ladies to be bi, if dicks rule everything, if men lose more privilege than women by coming out, Prince, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, and why hair metal was actually macho, how the AIDS epidemic put …

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Rina from Indulgence Boutique joins us as we discuss sex toys, the Victator's conversation with Dr. Chris Donahue, penis oriented sex-toy company TENGA's study “The United States of Masturbation,” notions of masculinity as a barrier to cis-male use of toys, Ms. Mayness' trunk full of toys, the lack of friendly s…

Recorded not-so-live in Gale's living room, in which Vintage Britt joins us as we discuss if there is a cultural disconnect when it comes to lesbians and the eggplant emoji, the Victator’s and Vintage Britt's "D reset button”, chasing the ick, times we don't want to have sex, why guy-on-guy porn is how Gale knows she'll never be 100 percent lez, wh…

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Lucy joins us as we discuss sex in long-term relationships, “givin' out the fake cellphone and name,” defining “relationships” outside of exclusivity, when sex plummets off the cliff of priorities, sex frequency, how Gale needs sex ALL THE TIME, how emotional distance can get you stuck in the lust zone, and how …

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we're joined by Lia, the founder of a nearly 1800 person strong online queer cruising group and Greta Narbo, sex party enthusiast and data wonk, as in the wake of the Pulse shooting in Orlando we discuss safer spaces and how — if at all — they can be maintained, what “queer” means when the number of groups under…

NEW EPISODES COMING SOON. In celebration of our one year anniversary, we've put together our favorite moments so far. Part two: from our last six episodes, in which the Victator and Isaac discuss vulnerability in dating, transitioning, and life, Jax reveals the true meaning of Jaxism, Robbyn and Isaac talk about sex after body changes, the Victator…

NEW EPISODES COMING SOON. In celebration of our one year anniversary, we've put together our favorite moments so far. Part one: from our first six episodes, in which we introduce ourselves and tell you not to take our advice, the Victator discusses her homoflexible love for George Costanza, we discuss the SCOTUS ruling for marriage equality, our kp…

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we introduce new permanent cohost, Gale Mayness, whom some of you may remember from our episode on cunnilingus, the Victator reveals that Justin Trudeau plays a very special role in her relationship with her lady friend, friend to Ms. Mayness and fellow group sex enthusiast joins us as we discuss the ins and out…

Recorded live via Kpiss.fm, in which Chip, Sugar Tits, and Boomer join the Victator as we all touch NuBritt's breastesies and discuss boobs, nipple play, masturbating in porta potties, idiots on the internet, Backstreet Boys vs. 'Nsync, boobie parties, nipple clamps, boob induced orgasms, sexual post-game recaps, those who like nip play and those w…

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Jax pinch hits as Cohost (Isaac's taking a leave) and we discuss scissoring (there's no crying in scissoring), the Victator's comments in Cosmo, LLiNYC's listing as one of the best sex podcasts, intimacy and what that means, farting in front of your partners, dutch ovens, picking your lover's acne, being a timid…

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which the Victator and Isaac and special guest Robbyn discuss the Victator’s post on Dan Savage’s Love Letter of the Day, reusing sex toys with new partners, dating and f*cking after divorce, lesbian bed death – a thing?, when your vagina is a BIG GAPING WOUND, how your sexual interests and desires change depending on…

Recorded not at all live and out of studio (apologies for sound quality), in which Jax Richter and Catherine join us as we discuss mixed orientation relationships, Jax's weird date that won't be repeated, transportation optimisation on first dates, how to ask those things you're not supposed to ask, the butch box, Flippers (The Victator is *Not* a …

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which Isaac makes his cohosting debut and Young Cecilia and Lesbian Grandma/B-Movie Maven Lola RocknRolla join us as we discuss vulnerability in recording, transitioning, as well as dating, titties at Motor City, Isaac's neck beard, meeting one's mate via online role play (not even the sexy kind), finger banging at Po…

Recorded not quite live from NuBritt's bed, in which the Victator and NuBritt's butts become one, NuBritt signs off (temporarily!), the Victator threatens anyone who keeps NuBritt away, we introduce our new segment NuBritt-At-Large, NuBritt packs, and Victator poops.

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we discuss orgasms with burlesque performer and drag king Foxy Squire and playwright and slutty man Fred, Victator's flirtatious musical chairs, cis dude orgasms vs. cis lady orgasms, cumming vs. orgasms (is there a difference? the answer may surprise you), refractory periods of men and women, consent between do…

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which sexy people Jax and Isaac join us as we yell a lot and discuss butches and transmen and the lesbian milieu, Jax saving the Victator from bullies, Isaac being a good looking dude, all of our articles on Flux Weekly, how "Roey Thorpe is the man," claims that butches are disappearing, hostility from some old guard …

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which friend and sexy queer lady Gale Mayness joins us as we discuss eating the furry tuna taco, that time Key and Peele taught teenagers how to eat pussy, morning wood in film, Michael Fassbender's dick, cumming in one's sleep, sex ed in the South vs. NYC, how damn intimate it is to receive cunnilingus, ethical non-m…

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which token-straight-dude Lil' J joins us as we discuss our listeners in Ghana and the Midwest, sex with an ex, double dipping, keeping your numbers of down, Tyler Perry, relationship hos, our future exes at Mikey's Hookup, Victator as philosopher king, using Tinder for a place to crash, more OkCupid etiquette, and th…

In which we discuss the SCOTUS ruling for marriage equality, PRIDE, middle America, Ruby Rose, more bi-shit, skinny white bitches, Caitlyn Jenner, etiquette for online dating, IRL dating, threesomes, pooping with Tinder, NuBritt's inability to get a date with a woman, and Victator's worst-date-ever (hint: Hitler). Disclaimer: there is a technical g…

In which we discuss Victator’s recent letter to Dan Savage and go on serious tangents about how to be a good ally, trans and cis preferences, the gender binary, being homoflexible, george castanza, bisexuality, garlic knots, the Kardashians, STDs, tops and bottoms, NuBritt’s recent article in Vice, and hoga.…